No you're not lame, your just a "square" so to speak.
I'll admit it's much easier to meet heauxs when you do drugs and drink b/c they almost serve as interest groups or hobbies. They're also great icebreakers and people generally let their guard down not only bc they're under the influence, but bc your obviously not judging them. And heauxs (hell women in general ) hate being judged.
but embrace you're square-ness
it feels great. Plus you're not missing out on much except easier access to more girls that are dtf 
I'll admit it's much easier to meet heauxs when you do drugs and drink b/c they almost serve as interest groups or hobbies. They're also great icebreakers and people generally let their guard down not only bc they're under the influence, but bc your obviously not judging them. And heauxs (hell women in general ) hate being judged.
but embrace you're square-ness
it feels great. Plus you're not missing out on much except easier access to more girls that are dtf 