I don't think women understand what "building up a man" means.

[OnlyOneBoss]

WHO is telling them to do all that?

When I envision a woman help "build up a man" I am imagining a breh in his early 20s, maybe a lil broke, but at least has a spot/car/job.


Who is actually telling women to find the worst man possible and pray it works out and he starts giving a fukk?

 

[DonB90]

WHO is telling them to do all that?

When I envision a woman help "build up a man" I am imagining a breh in his early 20s, maybe a lil broke, but at least has a spot/car/job.


Who is actually telling women to find the worst man possible and pray it works out and he starts giving a fukk?

You can search the depth of intellect trying to figure that out but why do all that when you can do this

 

[Strapped]

Why do people smoke ,you are literally cooking your lungs

 

[ReasonableMatic]

 

[Shadow King]

What she did is in fact "building a man up"...he chose not to take the opportunity seriously.

If a man has all of his own job/car/place in his early 20s (and maybe now 20s in general) a woman is not building him up.

 

[Uachet]

So she wants to change a man she likes into the man she needs? The simple solution to listening to her, is don't. Women like her know what they were messing with, and so any of you brothers who have their act together should not take seriously their complaints later own about men. Instead, seek out women who make better decisions.

 

[Still Benefited]

What she did is in fact "building a man up"...he chose not to take the opportunity seriously.

If a man has all of his own job/car/place in his early 20s (and maybe now 20s in general) a woman is not building him up.

Factually sure,but her disgust it didnt work out i think is the OPs point. I could restore a home with the foundation destroyed by termites. But it would be silly of me to be upset when things literally fall through.. Many women are putting their energy into bad investments when it comes to men. Then being bitter at all men due to the horrible outcome of those experiences.


Also to be clear this could be her son or brother. Doesnt really say