tell me what you do that leads up that breh

do you take her to the crib, chill and drink some henny or some wine and then sing ?
Jodeci can def get you some

Man it don't even take all of that half the time. Don't let these R&B music videos fool you breh. If you know how to talk to and treat a lady, alcohol ain't even necessary. I'm ol school fam. I grew up with just my ma so I know women through and through. Dinner and a movie, maybe hit up the park afterwards for a stroll (I live in a small town). Let her feel that smooth evening breeze through that natural hair.

Compliment her flawless skin under the moonlight.

Pull her close from behind and sing a lil bit of that hook

She feels your "excitement" on her.

She like "omg whats that"?

Then you pull her up and tease her with a kiss on the forehead. Don't ever underestimate the forehead kiss
You walk her back to the car and open the door for her and smack da booty

Won't even make it out the parking lot after that.
Dudes who can't sing gotta work alot harder or they game gotta be 10/10.
Thats just one strategy.