I got this Hoodrat Pregnant at 21. Here’s My Story

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This is a about the female that I referenced in my vasectomy story. If you didn’t read it here’s the link:

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/under-30-with-a-vasectomy-here’s-my-story.379739/

How We Met and Her.

So we had just moved from the hood into the suburbs of Houston. It was my mom, brother, sister and myself. I was 18 and had a new impala at the time with a loud stereo system and I let the whole neighbor know it. She (we’ll call her Tiffany) noticed me one day driving and was like “who is that”? After she saw me running through the neighborhood one day she set out on a mission to ‘get me’. Tiffany was 16 at the time (good thing I live in Texas) but Tiffany was fine. Tiffany was one of those females that would be a freshman in High School dating a senior if not grown men, she was popular, she was cool, and she was the girl I never got in High School.

About three weeks later I’m at home chillin by myself and hear the doorbell ring. I answer it and its a little kid who then hands me a piece of paper with a phone number on it and says “my sister wants to talk to you” (this happened to me again a few years later with another chick, different story). So I did and Tiffany and I set a date to go to the movies, shortly afterwards we started dating. I didn’t get to have sex with Tiffany for about 4 months but when I did it open the flood gates. I was her second despite what everyone thought. Oh ya, Tiffany was the product of a bad single parent home and her mom was Queen Hoodrat. She had about 6 kids in all, at least 4 different baby daddies and they were living in our neighborhood on section 8. I swear over the next few years I would be in the house smashing the daughter and her mom would be in her room doing her thing with a man. Over the next few years I saw at least 15 different guys come out or go in her mom’s room and I know her kids witnessed this to. O well back to the story. So I had been smashing this girl on and off for about 3 years and we dated on and off as well. When I came home from Afghanistan with the Army, ya boy sperm was potent and that’s how she got pregnant.

The Text and Pregnancy Test

So about a month after the condom broke I got a text saying “I missed my period”. My immediate reaction was oh shyt. I asked her had she taken a pregnancy test but of course the answer was no because she wanted me to buy it. I went and bought one of those first response test. She took both and they came back positive but she insisted we go to Planned Parenthood and get them to take a test. We did. After the test she got in my car and said “I’m pregnant”. I immediately responded with “so when are you getting an abortion”. She said that she was keeping it and that was the last thing we said to each other on the car ride to her house.

She was Pregnant What Now?

I didn’t tell my mom that she was pregnant as I didn’t know what was going to happen but I did tell my sergeant in the Army Reserve and he straight up told me “dude, don’t you see my life on child support, you gotta convince her to get and abortion”. Over the next week I tried to convince her that she and I weren’t ready for a child. Heck we were not even dating; I just hit it one time that year. I remember specifically telling her “your life sucks now, how are you going to be able to provide for a child as a single parent”? I later went on and told her don’t contact me until the child is born and even then I’m just going to sign over my rights to the child (you still have to pay child support if you do this btw). We didn’t talk for a few days.
 

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They Came to My House

One night I’m chillin upstairs in my room doing some college homework and I hear the doorbell ring. Something told me to get up but instead my mom answered the door and as soon as she opened the door it was Tiffany and her mother standing there. Immediately Tiffany’s mom said “we’re having a grand baby”. Needless to say my mom was speechless. She invited them in and I supposed they had a talk before my mom came up to my room. The conversation goes:

Mom: You know you got Tiffany pregnant
Me: Ya
Mom: So what are you going to do?
Me: I told her get an abortion
Mom: Really
Me: You know I don’t want kids
Mom: Well come downstairs and we are going to have a talk

So we are sitting in the living room and the conversation gets going. I’ll just highlight the few lines I remember and notable ones:

Tiffany’s Mom: So you ready to be a father?
Me: No, I told her have and abortion
Tiffany’s Mom: We don’t believe in abortions, we are religious.
My Mom: But you believe in sex before marriage *sip’s tea
Tiffany’s Mom: well
Me: If Tiffany doesn’t have the abortion I’m telling you I don’t want to be in the child’s life but I will pay child support
My Mom: Despite what he says I am going to take care of my grandchild
Me: Really mom, guess you all can reach out to me in 9 months

After the Meeting

About 2 days go by and Tiffany’s mom calls my mom and actually ask her for my social security number so they can try and get some insurance and also asked her what Army unit I was in. My mom of course shut that non sense down. Tiffany’s mom then called the Army demanding they get some type of health insurance. Good thing about the Army from my understanding is that you are getting nothing before the baby is born and a DNA test is conducted. After that failed I didn’t hear from then for about another week or so.

She Agreed to the Abortion

So one day Tiffany calls me and says she’ll do the abortion. I keep calm and asked her when but on the inside I was so happy. My life was saved!! Or so I thought. We set up a day to go to Planned Parenthood (PP). She rode in my car as her mom and one of her mom’s dudes followed. When we arrived a PP it was about 10 people protesting outside but I didn’t care. Just drove rite on in. We got up stairs and they asked her did she want to do a sonogram or something (don’t quote me on that as I really don’t know). I said “no” but Tiffany’s mom was like “yes we do”. Tiffany’s mom knew I was a come up for her daughter. The kind she never got even though she dealt with a lot of men. I was only 21 at the time but I had potential and those child support checks she would have been getting from when I was contracting in Afghanistan after college would have been fat. Even know those checks would be hefty.

Missed Doctors’ Appointments

Anyway we set up and appoint to get the abortion for about a week out. I could not go as I had to work nor did I think I needed to. After I got off work that day I called Tiffany only to find out they did not go to the appointment. I was like wtf. She said they didn’t have any gas money. So I gave them maybe $100 and we rescheduled for about another week out only for them to cancel it again. So I was like what’s up. Basically her mom said they needed to get some bills paid and Tiffany needed some extra spending money. I ended up coming off of about $2,000 just to bribe them into getting that abortion but if that was going to save me from 18 years of child support I was down for it.

Aftermath

Tiffany did get the abortion on that 3rd doctor’s appointment and we didn’t speak again for maybe 2 years. Once I did I found out she was working at Forever 21 and had 2 kids with this other guy. I will say Tiffany’s body had fully developed at this time into your typical Instagram model type of body. The thick kind most of your typical coli dudes drool over.

Anyway it’s been about 5 and a half years since then and we talk maybe two or three times a year and in almost every convo she says “you know I’m here whenever you want to settle down”…
 

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Tiffany’s Mom: We don’t believe in abortions, we are religious.
My Mom: But you believe in sex before marriage *sip’s tea

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:dahell:Real talk breh why are you so proud of your seed being aborted

That's not anything to be proud of man:to:


I understand you decided to have the vas which is your choice:manny:


I don't get it:mjcry:

So if somebody talks about their life experiences that's make them proud of what they did?

I'm not proud but I don't care either and don't really have any feelings about the situation. It's just another life experience.
 
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