I hate when a girl comes over and she refuses to drink when I met her drinking.

[ChatGPT-5]

This scallywag. I buy a nice bottle of wine, I know you drink because I met you at the club drinking and now you dont drink all of a sudden? women that refuse to drink tell me 3 things.

1) you're a whore drunk, and so when you go to bars, you're whoring.

2) you don't think you can control your liquor and will do something you'll regret, in which case if those are your true feeling, why are you even coming to my house alone and not meeting up at a venue or park or some where safe to begin with?

3) you don't trust ME, and that's even more odd, see reason #2.

soon as a girl turns down a glass I turn off instantly, I hate drinking by myself. :notocacs:

 

[Silver Surfer]

sounds like she not comfortable with you....

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Having a chick at your place is a good sign. I have a pretty good batting ratio once they're at the crib no matter what happens

 

[ChatGPT-5]

sounds like she not comfortable with you....

see #2.

 

[Colicat]

uhm... maybe she didn't like what you had to offer? ...

I don't drink beer so I just pass when people offer...

 

[KinksandCoils]

Could it be that she is the occasional drinker? or maybe if yall were alone together and she doesn't know you like that she doesn't want to be drunk around you. See women have to protect themselves against predators more than men. I'm not saying you are a predator at all but she could just be being careful.

 

[ChatGPT-5]

Could it be that she is the occasional drinker? or maybe if yall were alone together and she doesn't know you like that she doesn't want to be drunk around you. See women have to protect themselves against predators more than men. I'm not saying you are a predator at all but she could just be being careful.

No one asked her to be pass out drunk. If I were a predator , her sober, drunk, it wouldnt matter, she's alone in my domain I could over power her regardless. You women have the oddest logic.

If she asked me to go to her house in some shanty town, and I don't know her very well, I won't go there and then refuse a drink, I wouldnt go there PERIOD. the whole scenario, regardless of drunk or sober is bad news.

I don't go "well, I'll go to this unknown village of machete wielding hutus, but I won't drink, that'll protect me"

 

[malbaker86]

Umm...how about ASKING HER was there any reason why she didn't want something to drink as oppose to venting to us

 

[The 2020 New Member]

when people refuse a drink at my house, i say more for me.

Spoiler: because frfr...

i have a problem.

 

[Truth Hurts]

Umm...how about ASKING HER was there any reason why she didn't want something to drink as oppose to venting to us

/thread

 

[ikbm]

lets be real...the only reason you made this thread is cause you didnt fukk...not cause she didnt drink

maybe she didnt wanna give you the ass the first time she met you

the fact she came over obviously means she interested....but doesnt want to be viewed a certain way

 

[Food Mane]

who gives a fukk if someone else drinks or if you drink alone or whatever. Grow up. Drinking alone is what adults do.

 

[Trillion]

My reaction

 

[ChatGPT-5]

Umm...how about ASKING HER was there any reason why she didn't want something to drink as oppose to venting to us

Of course I asked her. I made salmon and some local things you wouldn't know the name, and it goes great with wine, when I asked if she wanted red or white, she said water. I go .

"I don't want to drink"

"um, you know, the meal goes pretty good with wine"

"makes my eyes flush"

""

"one glass won't do much to you"

"its not that"

"uh ok, well Im going to have a glass, it taste good with wine" [just got off work plus I don't know her, so obv Im feeling a bit awkward]

So after my glass, and meal I'm relaxed, nerves gone, stomach full, and she's still stiff. Mood killed. but other women, it usually goes very smooth. I'm not saying sex, but once you have a meal and a glass of wine, the conversation gets going and stories flow, the vibe gets going. Why do you think business dinners and what not have do these sorts of things? If it were a Saturday fine, you're already not stressed but a dinner date after a week of work? fukk I'd be stiff as hell without a glass and a full stomach, I'll be cranky.

 

[ChatGPT-5]

lets be real...the only reason you made this thread is cause you didnt fukk...not cause she didnt drink

maybe she didnt wanna give you the ass the first time she met you

the fact she came over obviously means she interested....but doesnt want to be viewed a certain way

I don't fukk on the first date, we have ebola and AIDS here, no fukk around gwan here, mate.

However, it helps with conversation and nerves. Meanwhile I'm pulling teeth and conversing the other person is being stiff. Now if she were muslim or something, fair enough, but I met her and she was taking shots. She was well reserved, but quite funny and loose. Sober she was definitely stiff, which is normal for meeting someone out of your element. All I'm saying is it's awkward when you get the nerves out, your belly is full, you've had a glass, and you're vibing and the other person is stiff.

We don't call it happy hour for nothing.