I have never came across one woman who has said she wants her man....

[DreadHead P]

In a sexual way none because i'm not a lesbian but i have had close relationships with many women. i'm a woman so for you to say that its ridiculous. just because you have had a few that doesn't represent all women.

take it from someone who has been dealing with women longer than he hasn't been dealing with women (on both intimate and non intimate levels). Listening to what comes out a woman's mouth is the quickest way to get the shyt wrong. You know the saying "actions speak louder than words"? They shyt is doubly true for the female sex.The best way to understand what I woman is saying is to understand what she's not saying. Trust me, I wouldn't lie to you about this baby girl

 

[FTBS]

take it from someone who has been dealing with women longer than he hasn't been dealing with women (on both intimate and non intimate levels). Listening to what comes out a woman's mouth is the quickest way to get the shyt wrong. You know the saying "actions speak louder than words"? They shyt is doubly true for the female sex.The best way to understand what I woman is saying is to understand what she's not saying. Trust me, I wouldn't lie to you about this baby girl

This goes for anyone. I take what anyone says with a grain of salt until I observe actions that confirm it.

 

[MikelArteta]

Real talk.I have a homegirl who used to model(even dabbled around in porn a lil bit--"Tiffany Mason")

She leaned more towards the ratchet side, but when she wanted to get dolled up, she was pretty damn tough.

I never tried anything with her because she was dating my cousin..on top of that, she wasn't really my type.I was never into the tall slender model type.However, she was very flirty.One day me , her, my cuzz, and one of his boys was chilling at his crib.His boy was like a freelance journalist..always had a camera with him.After sipping a few drinks, "Tiffany" decided to go into party girl mode, and starts jumping in nikkaz laps, posing and shyt.My cousin's boy just starts snapping pictures.

We was just goofing around, but that pic ended up coming out "magical".My cousin's boy was like "That shyt look like a professional couples photo.Like y'all really lovers or some shyt"....it was strictly coincidence, though It was just a freak accident where the cameras caught us at the right moment.


But yeah, I still have that photo till this day.I can literally feel girls going

When they spot that shyt

yeah man
a girl can think your wack and ugly and all that but if she sees a ex you had whose like sudenly your stock goes up

 

[Raava]

The concept of keeping the history in the past has always been a 50/50 dealbreaker for people....on one hand you have people with an "illustrious" past who are committed and faithful...on the other you have demons who are likely to cheat based on their habits/personality. Throughout it all though you have the SO who has to deal with whether or not they're willing to take a chance on em, (assuming they even know :mjlol).

That's my thing, I believe in most cases you won't know. I know in getting to know someone you will hear parts of their past. That's one thing I am not going drill a guy on it. I don't need the details its not even something I think about like that.

I agree it could be a toss up but a guy having a lot of previous partners doesn't mean they will cheat just like having few means they will be faithful. Cheating is a whole other thing, that has many different factors with it. From a lot of guys perspective, having a high number wasn't even about self control. The friend I mentioned didn't have sex with anything walking, and did discern. At the same time his college days those stories he was...active.

 

[old_timer]

women want companionship & to be shown a good time
if the guy knows what to do, they go with it
i doubt most women really ponder it deeply


to use a restaurant analogy
they want a good meal with good ambiance
who asks to see the latest health certificate
or request a tour of the kitchen before ordering??
because those things don't mean much


or another analogy- when you signed up at thecoli
you didn't say which version of apache
or where are the servers housed??
you said “this looks cool”
signed up, and gave it a go, and here we are


that is the way most human beings make choices

 

[raw613]

Its not everyone, but they definitely exist. The ones that do are going to find a different way to spin it, they aren't gonna say it bluntly like that

 

[PullOutGawd]

It varies tho..

I've had a lot of partners, each woman is different, so you gotta switching minor things from time to time

I'm glad I've had a lot, when I get married I won't be getting cheated on