I have no personality

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welcome to life..

its a double edge sword at this point...if thats the appropriate phrase.

you need life experience to have a personality..you need to go out and do things but as adult its a lot difficult to do that when you dont have any personality....

you just gotta tough it out though..
 

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Read books.
Watch comedy.
Get a few hobbies.
Develop interests.
Learn how to cook.
Travel, go for walks.
Meditate.
Try new things as much as your budget allows.
Talk to strangers.
Volunteer, help random people.
ENTERTAIN YOURSELF.

Life is a journey of self discovery and self reflection ones own actions.

When you develop a sense of humor and comedic timing the world is your oyster.
 

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Having no personality has it's pros. You can be mysterious. In some cases less talk is better than more. "Wise men listen and laugh, while fools talk"

BUT......you gotta have some interests though. Find some hobbies and talk about those. Then you'll find like-minded individuals to share your opinions with. If you like film, join a film club. If you like video games, play online, etc., etc.
 

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You just have to force yourself to socialize as uncomfortable as it is. Eventually it gets easier and you'll be able to talk to everyone easier. I used to be way more reserved but I think the biggest thing I've learned is that the majority of people are pretty friendly and are down to talk as long as you don't make the conversation weird. It just takes practice and learning to read people.
 
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you need to explore yourself
you have a personality, you probably just need some stimuli
find a few things you sorta like and just learn more and more about them and go deeper and deeper until you find something that makes your heart beat faster
 

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It's impossible to not have a personality. All you need is the ability to think for yourself and express your thoughts. I don't care much about interacting with people anymore, but I've noticed that it's easy to be noticed by others when your true thoughts are expressed. You should not want to be a safe person who hides their true opinions and decides to be boring. When I started expressing my true thoughts instead of avoiding it I noticed I got a lot more attention from others than before. Being able to express real or even controversial opinions does draw others in and make them interested in what you have to say. If you struggle with having opinions or thinking of things to say then you should spend more time thinking to yourself. You can develop principles and beliefs about yourself. Also it helps to research and explore topics that you lack perspective about.

For interests it's also about exploring. You have to give things a chance sometimes to determine if you like it or not since every interest isn't going to come naturally. Try to find more interests that you really like and you could meet others who have the same interests and beliefs that you have which leads to more success with socializing.
 
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