I just don't feel like dating right now even if it's for sex

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I've been single for about a year...at the moment have no interest in dating might start back in the summer
 

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Sound like me right now. I prolly talk to my weed man more than anybody else. I dont feel like being botherrd by people and everyday it's the same thing, Wake up ,get high, go to work ,get high, go to sleep, wake up, get high, go to school , get high go to sleep rinse and repeat 7x a week
 

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in no way am i dissing you but i never understand what does that mean?? like explain more.i hear "find myself" thing all the time
I guess finding his place in this world. Like what makes him happy career wise and personal life like the right female. Also, it equates to doing well and being content...which goes with ur personal finances. If he doing well financially as well as have a job that makes him content...that would help professionally.

It's just finding where u belong, what makes u happy, and what gives u a purpose.
 

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in no way am i dissing you but i never understand what does that mean?? like explain more.i hear "find myself" thing all the time

I guess finding his place in this world. Like what makes him happy career wise and personal life like the right female. Also, it equates to doing well and being content...which goes with ur personal finances. If he doing well financially as well as have a job that makes him content...that would help professionally.

It's just finding where u belong, what makes u happy, and what gives u a purpose.
Exactly, you never know what you like until you try. Many people are just complacent going through the motions. They distract themselves with mindless entertainment, drugs, alcohol and other vices just to waste time until they need to make more money to pay for their "entertainment", which is a respite from work. Just a mindless cycle.

Some people aim to be fulfilled. They want to know what makes them happy, what puts them in a bad mood and why, what do they value so that you can better navigate through life.
 

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Just a deeper understanding of one's self
This too lol.

But I feel u. Sometimes life can be a bytch or just seem like it isn't going the way u planned. Right now I'm not interested in dating unless I meet a girl who doesn't mind going half on things since I'm rebuilding myself and my finances/credit from a bad past experience. But a lot of these women want a man to solely provide and she not do much financially if anything at all. So I'm not in a comfortable place at all to be a sole provider for a female. I also want to find the right job for me.
 

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Exactly, you never know what you like until you try. Many people are just complacent going through the motions. They distract themselves with mindless entertainment, drugs, alcohol and other vices just to waste time until they need to make more money to pay for their "entertainment", which is a respite from work. Just a mindless cycle.

Some people aim to be fulfilled. They want to know what makes them happy, what puts them in a bad mood and why, what do they value so that you can better navigate through life.

Yup...see we right here on this one. U even explained it better. Good examples with the vices and mindless entertainment...
 

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This too lol.

But I feel u. Sometimes life can be a bytch or just seem like it isn't going the way u planned. Right now I'm not interested in dating unless I meet a girl who doesn't mind going half on things since I'm rebuilding myself and my finances/credit from a bad past experience. But a lot of these women want a man to solely provide and she not do much financially if anything at all. So I'm not in a comfortable place at all to be a sole provider for a female. I also want to find the right job for me.
Once you've made up your mind that you want a non-judgmental partner, you'll get one. No man should feel that a woman only wants him for money. You're more than that. Even once you're back in your groove, no woman should be draining you. Your partner should encourage you and uplift you.
 
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