I just took an L with this girl in the library
- Thread starter Ashyneezz
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pff i just walk up to a chick introduce myself and get into anything i have observed about her in 30 seconds.
If i saw her iPod was playin Kendrick Lamar ima ask her about TDE if she was at the last concert shyt like that....
Nothing intrigues a woman like common interest but you have to make sure its something you are good at.
Don't walk up to a chick saying "oh yeah i speak spanish too" and you barely passed 102.
If i saw her iPod was playin Kendrick Lamar ima ask her about TDE if she was at the last concert shyt like that....
Nothing intrigues a woman like common interest but you have to make sure its something you are good at.
Don't walk up to a chick saying "oh yeah i speak spanish too" and you barely passed 102.
dabestkeptsecret
Superstar
yeah if i was you just forget about the random pickup for now, (thats life after college ). But in college start off with a cute chick in your class, or hallway in your dome. At least u guys have something in common, and its easier to break the ice. as long as you dont come across too thirsty in the beginning it should work out (but whatever u do dont get stuck in the friend/simp zone)
-once u get comfortable with that, u can move on to talking to chicks randomly.
-once u get comfortable with that, u can move on to talking to chicks randomly.
uhhh.... you didn't take a L first off.
second, who said that because she walked away and you complimented her that you can't talk to her again or she doesn't want you to talk to her. don't assume.
third, talk to her again. however, this time talk to her without bringing across the idea that you want to date her or have sex with her. if you move like that, of course, she's going to shut you down because she's going to think that you're using her ass. talk to her as if she's a buddy of yours. if you get friend zoned, then cool. you don't have to always to treat every woman you're talking to like she's a love interest or a f*ck buddy. they think that's annoying as f*ck. if she doesn't want to have anything to do with you, talk to another chick.
it's NOT the end of the world unless you make it out to be. it's also NOT the end of the world because a woman isn't interested in dating you for whatever reason. you'll be fine.
second, who said that because she walked away and you complimented her that you can't talk to her again or she doesn't want you to talk to her. don't assume.
third, talk to her again. however, this time talk to her without bringing across the idea that you want to date her or have sex with her. if you move like that, of course, she's going to shut you down because she's going to think that you're using her ass. talk to her as if she's a buddy of yours. if you get friend zoned, then cool. you don't have to always to treat every woman you're talking to like she's a love interest or a f*ck buddy. they think that's annoying as f*ck. if she doesn't want to have anything to do with you, talk to another chick.
it's NOT the end of the world unless you make it out to be. it's also NOT the end of the world because a woman isn't interested in dating you for whatever reason. you'll be fine.
Real Talk of NY
Rookie
When u meet a chick in a setting like that, you gotta make her laugh first. Take away the creep factor. Unless you just a ugly nikka, then you better pull out your wallet.
She said "thank you"
if she walked off extra quick u should probaly leave it alone...if she walked off cuz u didn't have a followup and it wuz akward then u can go for it if u want to....and women know u mentioning the book she reading or complementing her outfit is bullshyt and u don't care about that.....might as well get straight into what u really talking to her for...tell her u think she cute and u wanted to see if you are her type so you can get her number and hang....nuthing wrong with appearing thirsty or simping if she feelin ya look and the convo...shell recepricate the thirst
...if she ant shell cut u short and u won't wonder if u took the L or not.
if she walked off extra quick u should probaly leave it alone...if she walked off cuz u didn't have a followup and it wuz akward then u can go for it if u want to....and women know u mentioning the book she reading or complementing her outfit is bullshyt and u don't care about that.....might as well get straight into what u really talking to her for...tell her u think she cute and u wanted to see if you are her type so you can get her number and hang....nuthing wrong with appearing thirsty or simping if she feelin ya look and the convo...shell recepricate the thirst...if she ant shell cut u short and u won't wonder if u took the L or not.
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
thiis is correct,...
they take it a backhanded you are only seeking coochhie muffin insult.
art barr
Ricky Church
Stole Timberlake's Spaceship-Coupe
damn breh, you fukked urself with that first impression.
you can redeem urself tho...
you can redeem urself tho...
As long as you can make a female laugh and feel comfortable, you're golden. I got the digits and eventually hooked up with a female back in high school in the library during a Saturday detention. 
If you're determined, have a good personality, and somewhat decent looking, this isn't an L. Just take your time, don't try too hard, and keep her laughing. She's almost guaranteed to entertain you. Now whether or not she ends the conversation by giving you her number when you ask for it or she smiles & tells you she has a bf is strictly up to the level of attraction she was feeling during the conversation. If you don't have the adequate time to make an impression, just be cool. In her mind, she'll think you're thirsty. You don't wanna rush it or force it, breh. You know where she hangs. You'll be able to tell when it's a good time to ask for her number. Just get your foot in the door and when the conversations are flowing and it feels natural, go for it.
If you're determined, have a good personality, and somewhat decent looking, this isn't an L. Just take your time, don't try too hard, and keep her laughing. She's almost guaranteed to entertain you. Now whether or not she ends the conversation by giving you her number when you ask for it or she smiles & tells you she has a bf is strictly up to the level of attraction she was feeling during the conversation. If you don't have the adequate time to make an impression, just be cool. In her mind, she'll think you're thirsty. You don't wanna rush it or force it, breh. You know where she hangs. You'll be able to tell when it's a good time to ask for her number. Just get your foot in the door and when the conversations are flowing and it feels natural, go for it.
