i messed my life up by focusing on unimportant Sh*t

[NOSKI_DA_DON]

I'm 28 turning 29 in September and I just hate where my life is right now. Other than a minimum wage job I have nothing going for myself, I have no money saved up, no investments,no. Car,im single, living in my mother's house.i really don't have anything to look forward to as far as the future go. I spent my whole 20's "living in the now" doing unimportant shyt aka nothing instead of working and building towards my future, working minimum wage jobs and this shyt is coming back to bite me in my ass now





Its hard trying to get your shyt together the older u get

 

[African Peasant]

Do better.

It's not like you're 48 or something.

 

[I Really Mean It]

There are millions whose lives are in far worse shape.

 

[Big Mountain Hélà]

It’s not too late, just get some money and your outlook will be different. Get into a trade (trucking,welding,barber etc) and get out of your moms house. Your whole perspective on everything will change

Even if it’s a closet apt you come home to, that freedom of “this my shyt” gonna help tremendously

 

[86\*/98]

You're a man so you still have time. Why don't you go to a trucking school like CRST or SWIFT? They'll send you a bus ticket tomorrow and a month after that you'll have a cdl. 6 months after that with no accidents you can find a job paying at least 60k. And build from there.

 

[Ol’Otis]

There are millions whose lives are in far worse shape.

This!
Especially these days

 

[thefloorislava]

I’m really curious to what you were doing in the 11 years from highschool. I’m feeling some type of way not having money like that at 21, I can’t imagine being broke at 25.

 

[jay83]

Your 29 not 39 or 49. So what’s already done is done.

 

[DreadBrown]

You need goals

First off set yourself a date to move out of your mothers house and work towards that. Having a safety net makes it too easy to stay where you’re at



Edit: you only get one shot at threads like these, we don’t want to see you talking the same shyt in a months time with no progress

 

[Zostrianos]

Get your CDL asap. Do you want marriage and children?

 

[NOSKI_DA_DON]

You need goals

First off set yourself a date to move out of your mothers house and work towards that



Edit: you only get one shot at threads like these, we don’t want to see you talking the same shyt in a months time with no progress

I'm already putting the work in now. By the end of the month I should have 2,000 saved up. I know that isn't alot of money but its a start. I can grab me a little car at the end of the month and have enough money saved up to get me a studio by the end of the year. I'm just about to put my head down and put the work in. Just reflecting thats all

 

[NOSKI_DA_DON]

Get your CDL asap. Do you want marriage and children?

Yea kids have been on my mind alot lately. I do want to start soon but I k ow I have to complete change my life around b4 u do that. Working on my CDL's. Now

 

[NOSKI_DA_DON]

I’m really curious to what you were doing in the 11 years from highschool. I’m feeling some type of way not having money like that at 21, I can’t imagine being broke at 25.

I was living aimlessly bro, no goals at all. Don't get me wrong its been time where I had a few thousand save and was doing my thing but I have no discipline when it came to my money and my life. Just stay focus and have a plan and ALWAYS SAVE FOR A RAIN DAY

 

[NOSKI_DA_DON]

You're a man so you still have time. Why don't you go to a trucking school like CRST or SWIFT? They'll send you a bus ticket tomorrow and a month after that you'll have a cdl. 6 months after that with no accidents you can find a job paying at least 60k. And build from there.

I'm working towards getting my cdls now that's the plan

 

[Koli_Kat]

If you work hard now you can have your shyt together by 35.

You got to stop bullshytting though. Get in school, stay the fukk away from women for now. Start working and stack your bread (you live with mom dukes so no excuses).