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There's this girl at work that's super cute and I want to talk yo her but she works at a different part of the store. Also I really need this job and I don't want to risk losing income over a woman.

Anyways the real problem is that I don't feel attractive enough because I have so many issues such as I look too young for my age, I lack real life experience and I'm really too immature for my age. People notice my behavior and don't believe me when I tell them my age.


But I really don't care. I know I'll have to take an L eventually so I might as well now. I just don't want to lose my job. She has a completely different schedule from mine and I may not see her again after tomorrow morning.

I need some advice from some coli ogs
@Art Barr @Blackthoughts @Geoffrey_Chaucer @skeetsinternal

Anyone else who wants to give input is welcome as well
 

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There's this girl at work that's super cute and I want to talk yo her but she works at a different part of the store. Also I really need this job and I don't want to risk losing income over a woman.

Anyways the real problem is that I don't feel attractive enough because I have so many issues such as I look too young for my age, I lack real life experience and I'm really too immature for my age. People notice my behavior and don't believe me when I tell them my age.


But I really don't care. I know I'll have to take an L eventually so I might as well now. I just don't want to lose my job. She has a completely different schedule from mine and I may not see her again after tomorrow morning.

I need some advice from some coli ogs
@Art Barr @Blackthoughts @Geoffrey_Chaucer @skeetsinternal

Anyone else who wants to give input is welcome as well
Shoot your shot breh. The worst thing in life is living with regrets. Thinking about moves you should've made. Introduce yourself to her and tell her that you find her attractive and interesting. Tell her you'd like to get to know her better and ask can she take your number or exchange numbers. If you do that and she says no at least you can go to sleep at night knowing you shot your shot. Remember this, you'll never make a shot that you're too afraid to take. Good luck breh.
 

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There's this girl at work that's super cute and I want to talk yo her but she works at a different part of the store. Also I really need this job and I don't want to risk losing income over a woman.

Anyways the real problem is that I don't feel attractive enough because I have so many issues such as I look too young for my age, I lack real life experience and I'm really too immature for my age. People notice my behavior and don't believe me when I tell them my age.


But I really don't care. I know I'll have to take an L eventually so I might as well now. I just don't want to lose my job. She has a completely different schedule from mine and I may not see her again after tomorrow morning.

I need some advice from some coli ogs
@Art Barr @Blackthoughts @Geoffrey_Chaucer @skeetsinternal

Anyone else who wants to give input is welcome as well

My advice is: Don't shyt where you eat at, you need to focus on your paper first; females will always be there. I worked with some pretty ass women, and I just used them as practice for the real world and I just had them cook for me and help me with my work. Once you stick your dikk in them it's a wrap.

Looking young is not a downfall, I'll tell you from experience it's a blessing. I'm going to be 30 and I look 20, I got carded a couple of months ago when I played the super lotto at the 7-11. Life experience you learn that every day, if your talking about sniffing coke and poppin pills as life experience; I would rather stay at home and stack money and travel.

All p*ssy ain't good p*ssy
 
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Dont do it breh breh. Its an unlimited supply of bad bytches out there for u to holla at. U seem to rly wanna hold on to that job, so why risk jeopordazing it over 1 female u wanna smash?
 
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DIRTY SOUTH SHXT
  • Mend your Maturity/Behavior
(It'll take yo patience don't bytch out) Be more analytic about certain things & be firm wit it
Be an Open-Minded individual, be free, She not the only bytch at yo Workplace

  • Gain Knowledge/ Be insightful
Take advantage of any given situation
Learn from yo mistakes
nikkaz dont run away from problems

  • Attire
Swag exclusive to YOU only
Dont be dat Weird hipster nikka wit lame ass
personality; Be smooth wit it; Apparel that fux wit yo style
  • Physique
OP I can sense dat you a bytch.
Begin doin Calisthenics & eventually move to weights (You dont need a Gym for dis shyt)
Engage yourself in Sports & Maintain healthy diet: Check Nutrional content.

Protein rich shyt

Gains in Muscle = Gains in p*ssy

If not lose weight & at least be Cut (Patience)

  • Conversation
Dont force yo self to speak, you gon sound like a fukkboi :mjlol:

Jus be casual/smooth wit it "How you doin?"
Eventually she'll vent nd you can pick light at the situation

Humor is the best way into a Females heart
& Her legs :scheme:

  • Expand Social Network
Dont be that Anti Social freak nikka
Have connections if not form some through yo work area/ fw the Neighborhood OG's Join what yo friends are on nd be Free

  • Leave The Coli
Came to the realization that thecoli's filled wit Anti-Social weirdos who had been rejected/ridiculed in some Way/Shape/Form

The people who post commonly are the lonely ones.

:francis:


Put it to work nd she gon be callin you Papi In no time

:takedat:
 

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you are not in the stage to talk to a coworker.
especially if your self esteem is not high enough.
to deal with the rejection of a female you put on a pedestal.
you are better off ramping up on dealing with rejection by going out and playing day game.
to take rejection from multiple approaches and multiple mass rejections.

my first hint, is develop a great opening that you always say,...
that features a charismatic gesture that says the female is desireable.
while not being to emo, not to possesive and not to disrespectful.
while also establishing dominance in a word or less.
plus, is current and won't go out of style.
so, think hard on that.

get an opening charismatic greeting and learn to guage interest.
by a female's level of charisma to your greeting in return.
if she can't reply back to being said hello to in a polite manner that shows interest.
you can pretty much know in general that is a possible rejection.
so, get a proper greeting and that helps in the entire ball game off gp.
once you get better at finding and identifying women who are receptive to your opening.
then, you can work on getting game.
to possibly swaying some of the definite rejections into possible, yes's.
that is much later on in the game,..now, you just need to find what type of woman is receptive to you.
as a willing feral receptive mate for now.

also, with a coworker for future reference.
if you don't move in for the kill, early on when you first encounter her and make you direct intentions known from jump and on first site.
you will ruin the ability to smash.
so, you may have to just take this potential prospect you put on a pedestal as a rejection, for now off top.
till later on you get a grasp of your own tailor made g, to learn how to swing a long term coworker to be your mate.

as you probably already ruined the ability to get up with her because you did not bee line to her and make an approach.


art barr
 
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Shoot your shot breh. The worst thing in life is living with regrets. Thinking about moves you should've made. Introduce yourself to her and tell her that you find her attractive and interesting. Tell her you'd like to get to know her better and ask can she take your number or exchange numbers. If you do that and she says no at least you can go to sleep at night knowing you shot your shot. Remember this, you'll never make a shot that you're too afraid to take. Good luck breh.
I fukks with this, If run into her or see her isolated, then ima go for it. I'm not going out of my way for her though.
My advice is: Don't shyt where you eat at, you need to focus on your paper first; females will always be there. I worked with some pretty ass women, and I just used them as practice for the real world and I just had them cook for me and help me with my work. Once you stick your dikk in them it's a wrap.

Looking young is not a downfall, I'll tell you from experience it's a blessing. I'm going to be 30 and I look 20, I got carded a couple of months ago when I played the super lotto at the 7-11. Life experience you learn that every day, if your talking about sniffing coke and poppin pills as life experience; I would rather stay at home and stack money and travel.

All p*ssy ain't good p*ssy
I've never heard of baby face slayer who didn't have a bunch of money. Also, I agree about not doing drugs but a lot of peers like doing that shyt and unless you are lucky enough to have the skills or be born in the right socioeconomic class you are going to be an outcast which I don't have a problem with, but won't act like it isn't a disadvantage.

NEVER EVER fukk WITH A FEMALE YOU WORK WITH!!!!!

Seems like ever two weeks I'm typing that cause there's all some muthafukka trying to ice skate up a hill :stopitslime:
Every man has had to skate up a hill to achieve greatness. Now, the attempt fails for 99% of us, but every guy has felt the need to press their luck once in a while.

Be straight to the point and ask her for head brobro and she'll respect you

I don't know bruh, in my experience all women respect is money and authority. Women don't respect equals or inferiors.
Dont do it breh breh. Its an unlimited supply of bad bytches out there for u to holla at. U seem to rly wanna hold on to that job, so why risk jeopordazing it over 1 female u wanna smash?
yeah, I don't necessarily believe in abundance, in life most people have few chances and after that it's over for them. I'm not saying she's the one, just that she's worth getting to know deeper.
I respect you not bothering to give an answer, as I'm not that type of individual and for trying to get other men to give me advice. That doesn't mean I disregard your opinions on other topics as you have many high quality posts.

I don't give real advice to those with negative rep.

Man up nikka

rep is a popularity contest when the most popular opinion is rarely the best or correct one,
  • Mend your Maturity/Behavior
(It'll take yo patience don't bytch out) Be more analytic about certain things & be firm wit it
Be an Open-Minded individual, be free, She not the only bytch at yo Workplace

  • Gain Knowledge/ Be insightful
Take advantage of any given situation
Learn from yo mistakes
nikkaz dont run away from problems

  • Attire
Swag exclusive to YOU only
Dont be dat Weird hipster nikka wit lame ass
personality; Be smooth wit it; Apparel that fux wit yo style
  • Physique
OP I can sense dat you a bytch.
Begin doin Calisthenics & eventually move to weights (You dont need a Gym for dis shyt)
Engage yourself in Sports & Maintain healthy diet: Check Nutrional content.

Protein rich shyt

Gains in Muscle = Gains in p*ssy

If not lose weight & at least be Cut (Patience)

  • Conversation
Dont force yo self to speak, you gon sound like a fukkboi :mjlol:

Jus be casual/smooth wit it "How you doin?"
Eventually she'll vent nd you can pick light at the situation

Humor is the best way into a Females heart
& Her legs :scheme:

  • Expand Social Network
Dont be that Anti Social freak nikka
Have connections if not form some through yo work area/ fw the Neighborhood OG's Join what yo friends are on nd be Free

  • Leave The Coli
Came to the realization that thecoli's filled wit Anti-Social weirdos who had been rejected/ridiculed in some Way/Shape/Form

The people who post commonly are the lonely ones.

:francis:


Put it to work nd she gon be callin you Papi In no time

:takedat:
I feel what you're saying but I have the time to implement everything you've said in a few days; it's good to keep in mind though.

also I do workouts on YouTube almost every day and I used to box for two years. I could protect myself in a dangerous situation but it never becomes that serious. I doubt I'll ever use my skills outside a gym.

I'm a big boxing fan but it's so obscure no always all people care about is NBA/NFL.

you are not in the stage to talk to a coworker.
especially if your self esteem is not high enough.
to deal with the rejection of a female you put on a pedestal.
you are better off ramping up on dealing with rejection by going out and playing day game.
to take rejection from multiple approaches and multiple mass rejections.

my first hint, is develop a great opening that you always say,...
that features a charismatic gesture that says the female is desireable.
while not being to emo, not to possesive and not to disrespectful.
while also establishing dominance in a word or less.
plus, is current and won't go out of style.
so, think hard on that.

get an opening charismatic greeting and learn to guage interest.
by a female's level of charisma to your greeting in return.
if she can't reply back to being said hello to in a polite manner that shows interest.
you can pretty much know in general that is a possible rejection.
so, get a proper greeting and that helps in the entire ball game off gp.
once you get better at finding and identifying women who are receptive to your opening.
then, you can work on getting game.
to possibly swaying some of the definite rejections into possible, yes's.
that is much later on in the game,..now, you just need to find what type of woman is receptive to you.
as a willing feral receptive mate for now.

also, with a coworker for future reference.
if you don't move in for the kill, early on when you first encounter her and make you direct intentions known from jump and on first site.
you will ruin the ability to smash.
so, you may have to just take this potential prospect you put on a pedestal as a rejection, for now off top.
till later on you get a grasp of your own tailor made g, to learn how to swing a long term coworker to be your mate.

as you probably already ruined the ability to get up with her because you did not bee line to her and make an approach.


art barr
I've felt a lot of what you've said for a long time, just haven't been able to put it into words. I will never day game though, it's just not for me and I believe PUA is harmful to humanity...productive societies are not spending resources on ways to woo women. I agree that it may be too late because I waited too long and women know if they are attracted after 3 seconds of interaction. I appreciate your prolific posting that is why I mentioned you as I know you would give input.
 

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I agree @Art Barr you're not ready. This is a situation where an L could cost you your job and damage your self esteem even more. Girls are mean bro. She's going to tell at least one of your coworkers you hollered. I like your enthusiasm though. But your motivation seems to be that she's hella cute. And that's not enough. You're just another guy who's trying to fukk her cause she's pretty. She could be offended by this or see you in a different light.

If you're going to shoot your shot do it in when she's in a group. Waiting for her to be alone is creepy. If you can get her to come to you you'll at least get a date. It's going to take a few weeks to do it right and a lot of manipulation and trolling. I don't know if you're skilled enough in the dark arts for this man. You'll have to lie and take some shyt to the grave. If you can look her in the eyes and think: "yeah you sexy, so what." I strongly suggest finding a nice starter GF. Get your bars up. Then knock baddies.
 
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