I need some ideas on how to spit at this chick (odd situation)

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girl's background

- 26ish
- never kissed a guy :ohhh:
- never went on a date :dwillhuh:
- never wants to date or have a BF because "marriages do not work"
- big introvert

Our relationship

- go to the same school
- hanged out a few times (outside of school)
- text here and there

The issue

I just need some ideas on how to get at her without making shyt awkward. I am going to have to push a little hard I'm guessing because of what she thinks of men. However, I have to see her all the time so I don't want things to get awkward. I also don't want her telling anyone that I tried her cuz she might tell someone else and fukking up my game at school.

If I can book a grown virgin :blessed:
 
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what is your end goal?

do you want to actually make a genuine attempt at having a meaningful relationship with her or are you just trying to have sex and move on once it's become boring?
 
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Matt504 said:
don't "spit at her", just continue getting to know her as a person and let nature take it's course, if you're someone she's interested in, she'll give you a chance that you'll inevitably fukk up.
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This

Mr swag said:
but that takes to long :francis:
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And?

You want it quick and easy?

Just continue being cool but let her know that you're definitely interested and would want to keep hanging out if she's down. Don't friend zone yourself but definitely be cool/friends
 
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Nah don't tell her you interested. Act like regular friends go out to eat movies shyt like dat.. but treat her so good she'll wanna see what a relationship with u is like.. curiosity will get her if she in the blind about your intentions. She might throw up flag if she know u tryin..
 
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tell her you like her and would like to get to know her more. see what she says. if she says she's not interested, sees you as a friend, tell her y'all are not on the same vibe but you respect her honesty and cut her off completely. either she'll come around or she won't.

on another note, i don't know why so many of us insist on trying to get with girls that are obviously not into us. why not get with the girl that's trying to be with you?
 
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Matt504 said:
don't "spit at her", just continue getting to know her as a person and let nature take it's course, if you're someone she's interested in, she'll give you a chance that you'll inevitably fukk up.
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Don't listen to this misandrist, OP he doesn't have your or any other man's best interest at heart. You should try to find our what her interests are and then use that knowledge to formulate a game plan. Finding out why she doesn't think marriage will work might help too.
 
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O.T.I.S. said:
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And?

You want it quick and easy?

Just continue being cool but let her know that you're definitely interested and would want to keep hanging out if she's down. Don't friend zone yourself but definitely be cool/friends
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how do I do this without making it awkward. this is different cuz I got to see her all the time afterwards :francis:
 
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