I need some ideas on how to spit at this chick (odd situation)

[Mr swag]

Don't listen to this misandrist, OP he doesn't have your or any other man's best interest at heart. You should try to find our what her interests are and then use that knowledge to formulate a game plan. Finding out why she doesn't think marriage will work might help too.

i done this. whats the plan when we hang out again?

 

[Mr swag]

tell her you like her and would like to get to know her more. see what she says. if she says she's not interested, sees you as a friend, tell her y'all are not on the same vibe but you respect her honesty and cut her off completely. either she'll come around or she won't.

on another note, i don't know why so many of us insist on trying to get with girls that are obviously not into us. why not get with the girl that's trying to be with you?

im not sure what you are talking about. we chill on the solo

 

[Turbulent]

im not sure what you are talking about. we chill on the solo

if you chill on the solo and she makes it a point to voice her negative opinions on relationships and marriage in your presence, chances are she's not feeling you.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

how do I do this without making it awkward. this is different cuz I got to see her all the time afterwards

Get to know her, asks questions, talk to her like you talk to anyone you've known for years. Try to make plans to do something she showed interest in and see if she's down but don't be too pushy.

I mean, you kinda just got to go with the flow until you find a better time to try to officially make it happen. Don't wait too long but if y'all been talking almost daily for a few weeks then holla at her and see if she wants to go out and do something alone or maybe with mutual friends..







Or you could say fukk it and just ask her out now

 

[End Cruelty]

This is advice to fukk, not wife:

Get a lame friend to get at her and double date a few times. Or sumn like that. Keep it group oriented and ignore her. Only occasionally try to pique her interest. Then randomly make a grand gesture. Once she's surprised fukk her brains out and then curve her. From there it's on you to decide what's next.

 

[Pineal Gland]

tell her you like her and would like to get to know her more. see what she says. if she says she's not interested, sees you as a friend, tell her y'all are not on the same vibe but you respect her honesty and cut her off completely.

This.

Other nikkas in here giving you directions to the friend zone

 

[Mr swag]

This.

Other nikkas in here giving you directions to the friend zone

I'm going to do this. I just gonna bite the bullet and stop wasting time

 

[///Vega+++]

26 and never went on a date let alone kissed a guy ?
what kind of prudishness is that

she gotta be a lesbian

 

[Neuromancer]

i done this. whats the plan when we hang out again?

@Turbulent already gave my answer. Knowing her helps though. And if she says no then like he said cut her off completely.

 

[Banned Account12]

girl's background

- 26ish
- never kissed a guy
- never went on a date
- never wants to date or have a BF because "marriages do not work"
- big introvert

Our relationship

- go to the same school
- hanged out a few times (outside of school)
- text here and there

The issue

I just need some ideas on how to get at her without making shyt awkward. I am going to have to push a little hard I'm guessing because of what she thinks of men. However, I have to see her all the time so I don't want things to get awkward. I also don't want her telling anyone that I tried her cuz she might tell someone else and fukking up my game at school.

If I can book a grown virgin

Keep dat shyt 1hunnid fam
What you want from this girl??? Sex or a real relationship

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

but that takes to long

Who says you can't speak to other women at the same time?

 

[Mr swag]

26 and never went on a date let alone kissed a guy ?
what kind of prudishness is that

she gotta be a lesbian

she might be fam.

Keep dat shyt 1hunnid fam
What you want from this girl??? Sex or a real relationship

either is fine with me