You done? You can go ahead and get off your high horse, breh.
I shared stories and no personal information. We all have stories and experiences we lived through and heard of that we share here on the coli. We share, laugh, judge as long as you're not putting someone's name or pics out there all this shyt remains anonymous. THus why we have username. That's what we do here. I'm learning and perhaps these young lads out here can take my advice and steer from such behavior/situations. Too often mofos be shacking up out of convenience and wind up in these relationships with women they ende up hating or hates them.
A lot of people shack up for the convenience and being infatuated by someone whom theyve only known for a short while but since it's convenient and makes sense economically they jump in with both feet. Like this chick i met from San Francisco who was saying shyt like this after visiting atlanta. Something to the effect of:
"Life is cheap here so no wonder everyone prefer being single. They can afford these nice apartments and homes by themselves while playing the field ...."
THis is the mindset of some people out there. If you cant stay afloat on your own, reach out and hang onto someone else. That aint love. Mind you the chick that toldme this owns her own home in SF but at least she recognizes the trend. THere was some other intresting shyt she said on the topic. Let me look in my chats and see
Breh, I am far from someone who is on a high horse. But, like you, I also share experiences and perspectives on this site.
You talk about me being on a high horse, but you titled your thread talking about YOU needing brehs to stop taking in women in order to save money.
Why do YOU need brehs to do something that has NOTHING to do with you? How does THEIR decisions impact your life? Unless someone ask you for advice about their personal matters, then you simply mind your business!
Assuming you are an adult well into adulthood, then you already know that despite how you may feel about their life choices and decision making, people are doing to do what they think is in their best interest at that moment. Same goes for you as well as myself.
When someone shares their personal accounts about events that is happening at that moment, they aren’t doing it for you to judge them negatively. They are doing it for someone like yourself to lend them an ear to vent or perhaps to teach you a lesson on not following their example, if that is their angle?
I have always maintained for people to learn how to keep certain things to themselves or at least learn who to share certain facets of their wife with.
Moral of the story, you will never ever stop men for doing things for women! There will always be simps, pimps, players, macks, squares, gangsters, etc. Where you fall within those parameters is up to you and only you!
My point of view wasn’t a personal attack against you, but I feel it was some real shyt because that is how it really is!
Perhaps people should them and you do you! If someone share something about themselves that goes against your program, then perhaps it will conform that you are doing something right!
