I really have a teenager now bro. I hope she doesn't flip the script

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My lil girl is a lil lady now :mjcry:. I know y'all nikkas see me usually talking politics, talking sports, or just being silly as hell. But man, this is my life right here man. Yo to the age of 13 she earned 1 whooping, and I literally have NEVER had to yell or raise my voice at her. She wasn't a cry baby, didn't argue back when told no, didn't bother things kids aren't supposed to mess with, ect. My child has been perfect.


What am I in for now brehs :patrice:
 

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You're in for a young human being who will naturally grow apart from you.

It'll be heartbreaking a bit, but psychological, it'll help her form who she independently is.

There will be clashes and fights. There will be disobedience. But, as you know growing up, it's natural, breh.

She is beautiful and it's important that she knows that no matter what; she can come to you for anything.

Establish an environment that fosters communication and a space to be able to come to you and be like, "daddy, I need to talk to you. I need you to promise me you won't be mad."

And you need to not go against your promises.

Now, more taboo; you have to understand that sexual growth and exploration is normal. You can't create an environment that makes her think that any breh she is caught kissing; you're going to kill. You want her to able to tell you when she has questions and when she has emotional responses to new experiences that she doesn't understand.

I can tell you love her. I think you already know most of what to do.

Respect. :salute:
 
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You're in for a young human being who will naturally grow apart from you.

It'll be heartbreaking a bit, but psychological, it'll help her form who she independently is.

There will be clashes and fights. There will be disobedience. But, as you know growing up, it's natural, breh.

She is beautiful and it's important that she knows that no matter what; she can come to you for anything.

Establish an environment that fosters communication and a space to be able to come to you and be like, "daddy, I need to talk to you. I need you to promise me you won't be mad."

And you need to not go against your promises.

Now, more taboo; you have to understand that short sexual growth and exploration is normal. You can't create an environment that makes her think that any breh she is caught kissing; you're going to kill. You want her to able to tell you when she has questions a d when she has emotional responses to new experiences that she doesn't understand.

I can tell you love her. I think you already know most of what to do.

Respect. :salute:
Good info my dawg, greatly appreciated :salute:. I'm less if a disciplinarian and more of a communicator. I'm hoping she gets more comfortable communicating personal stuff down the line.

I do t notice much interest in boys yet, but she is on her way to high school next year. I'm pretty sure it's coming lol
 

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Man i dont have children but im aware that soooo much can happen at the from today till shes 18, whatever events happen in her life please dont fail to communicate with her and make her feel comfortable to talk to you about any issues she may have. Teach her all you can breh.

i dont know you from a can of paint but im already proud of you breh :obama:
 
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