I think I'm done trying to be social.

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I came to a conclusion today that I really don't care if my social skills don't improve down the road. What's the point? When all it brings me is misery, anxiety and regret.

And honestly I rather not take meds even if it does help

I don't even think I care about getting a women down the road y'all.

As Kent would say, "I'm become a lone wolf now"
 

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Some people are just natural introverts. It doesn't mean that you cannot find friends or a significant other that understands that or is even introverted themselves :yeshrug:
With how nervous I get I come off as a creep or some future psycho to people.

I don't see no significant other coming haha

I'll work on myself but socially nah
 

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With how nervous I get I come off as a creep or some future psycho to people.

I don't see no significant other coming haha

I'll work on myself but socially nah
You're not the only person in the world that gives off creeper vibes, you just gotta find that crowd that accepts that and will try to work with your social awkwardness
 

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With how nervous I get I come off as a creep or some future psycho to people.

I don't see no significant other coming haha

I'll work on myself but socially nah
Bro I have the same social fears you do. You have to realize you determine how you're perceived. You can be a lone and not seem creepy. You're alone and assuming people think you're creepy. You're appearing creepy because you're making yourself nervous.

Next time you get nervous I want you to remove yourself from the situation by doing these things: recognize how you're feeling, accept the reality of it, consider the past outcome of that feeling, and focus on resolution and not the feeling. In time you'll be calm.

You're letting your mind kick your ass. You gotta take control of your ego and tell it to chill the fukk out.

HS is rough man, try to keep in mind you're still developing into who you're going to be and this is a stage in your life and not the destination.
 
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Bro I have the same social fears you do. You have to realize you determine how you're perceived. You can be a lone and not seem creepy. You're alone and assuming people think you're creepy. You're appearing creepy because you're making yourself nervous.

Next time you get nervous I want to remove yourself from the situation by doing these things: recognize how you're feeling, accept the reality of it, consider the past outcome of that feeling, and focus on resolution and not the feeling. In time you'll be calm.

You're letting your mind kick your ass. You gotta take control of your ego and tell it to chill the fukk out.

HS is rough man, try to keep in mind you're still developing into who you're going to be and this is a stage in your life and the destination.
Alright man, but right now I just don't wanna be bothered with socialization anymore, I'm just tired of it,
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
It's nothing wrong with how you feel as long as you know and accept the path you want to live..
As long as you are learning and growing and becoming a better person for yourself, who is anyone to judge..
But you can't be out here playing that "woe is me" card on the crying for attention side of the game..
Just enjoy your life as you see fit, eventually your hobbies and interests will have you meeting life compatible friends, associates or lovers..
 
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