ComputersPutin
All Star
So I invited my new girlfriend over this past weekend to just chill. We started watching House of Cards on the couch and made it to about episode three before things took a turn. She started touching on me and before you know it she performing oral on me 
Well once something like that happens...I'm ready to get it in. So I carried her to the bedroom and gave her the best five minutes of stroking ever.
I'll spare you the details of those five minutes but after it was over she looked me in my eyes leaned over and tried to kiss me

I turned my face and told her to stop. I said that was a major step and very intimate. I'm not ready to build that soul connection with anyone. I told her I was abstaining from kissing until I get married. Now she is upset at me. How do I fix this?
@Juicy @Chelsea Bridge @Regine Hunter @Phoenix Reborn I read on here that you ladies aren't getting action. How woulD yall handle ?

Well once something like that happens...I'm ready to get it in. So I carried her to the bedroom and gave her the best five minutes of stroking ever.

I'll spare you the details of those five minutes but after it was over she looked me in my eyes leaned over and tried to kiss me


I turned my face and told her to stop. I said that was a major step and very intimate. I'm not ready to build that soul connection with anyone. I told her I was abstaining from kissing until I get married. Now she is upset at me. How do I fix this?
@Juicy @Chelsea Bridge @Regine Hunter @Phoenix Reborn I read on here that you ladies aren't getting action. How woulD yall handle ?