If someone tells you how to fish and you still starve, that’s your fault.
nikka makes excuses for everything that people tell him, that responsibility is on him. I have empathy but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t need some tough love to get him on the right direction.
I definitely don’t give a fukk about his feelings. If he doesn’t want to hear it, go out and do something about it or leave. It’s too many people out here who are struggling with kids and other obligations and making the best of their life situations for me to hear his excuses
If he just said he isn’t looking for work right now at least he is being honest. Lie to yourself all you want but you ain’t gonna lie to me and try to play on emotions.
My mom said you out at 18. You either go to college or the military or go get your own job and spot. Even though I experienced setbacks I would not be where I am today if someone did not allow my complacency.
Talking about moving for work, if you can’t make it where you from those problems will only follow.