If Blk America struggles financially, then why do yall say wmn's money don't matter? Pt 1

[Scustin Bieburr]

These cats don't learn till their pockets are annihilated in family court.

It isn't masculine to raise an overgrown child. If she has something to lose financially in marriage shes more likely to contribute and be a co owner in what you build. It is better for the children too that they see both parents an equal amount of time. We been known that kids who grow up seeing their father and mother often together or spending an equal amount of one to one time turn out better than kids who barely know their father.

You are the first teacher your kids have. They learn how adults are supposed to behave by watching you and their mother. They need to see you two cooperating and resolving differences logically and respectfully. They will learn people skills from watching you.

These 'its my responsibility to be a provider' power-simps learn real quick how badly they fukked up when their alimony and child support money going to their spouse getting her back blown out in an apartment he partially paid for.

 

[T’Challa’s Heir]

I always say this. A woman’s money matters, just not the way women want it to. A woman is not going to be able to pull a guy out of her range because of her salary. And a lot of women who make money still expect the man to pay for everything or nearly everything. So, by her own admission, she takes her money out of the equation. If you only wanna contribute a trivial amount to household expenses, you get the same consideration as the attractive 23 year olds.

A woman’s salary, credit, and debt history are critically important.

 

[Be Strong Blackman]

If a man makes enough to cover the expenses for the household then the woman's money shouldn't matter.

If she makes money it will be a nice supplement.

But most men do not make enough money to cover all expenses...and they still say a woman's money doesn't matter.

It matters to these people.

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If a man hits hard times financially, it’s always good to have a wife and her family’s money to fall back on. It’s a safety net for the children.

When it comes to marriage, if your family ain’t got money, it’s a no-go for me. Brehs have to start thinking about their children and worst case scenarios.

I agree...I got hit with Omicron...when I was in bed...it hit me...like "damn what if I'm not able to work and I had a wife and kids?" I'm in the tech field so I already make above-average...even though I make good money, I also have many responsibilities.

 

[Red11]

How does it help the community? Yall know most men say, "a woman's money doesn't matter. I don't care how much she makes"

Now I don't believe in that at all. I actually think men should think about a woman's finances, credit, debt, assets, etc. especially if ppl are actually concerned about generational wealth. Many men have been practicing Hypogamy. Hypogamy [a] refers to the inverse: marrying a person of lower social class or status (colloquially "marrying down").

What are the coli's thoughts?

Read the entire forum to realize we talking about marriage. What percentage of black folks you know that are married and stay that way in 2021?

Long term I.E. Marriage: The reason we feel this way is because its another idol in opposition to her idolizing me. Its insecure and TRUE.

 

[SNG]

When a man says a woman's money doesnt matter, he pretty much saying her characteristics, morals, and level of trust are more important to us. Finance is important but not on the level of the traits that I mentioned. Its not rocket science breh

it’s a problem when these traits are not exisistent in women. nikkas will be on some don’t worry baby I got you while she still fukking a dusty nikka with a big dikk and can fukk her good.

 

[Will Ross]

A woman money does not matter because we don't look to women to provide us with lifestyle.

 

[Be Strong Blackman]

Read the entire forum to realize we talking about marriage. What percentage of black folks you know that are married and stay that way in 2021?

Long term I.E. Marriage: The reason we feel this way is because its another idol in opposition to her idolizing me. Its insecure and TRUE.

I don't think it's a good idea to date a broke woman either... most ppl end up with those they spend the most time with...whether it's marriage or knockin them up