If She Cheated On You, Would You Rather It Be Physical Or Emotional???

[Marco Zen]

Let's say you caught her..

Youve found out there's another nikka...

Would you rather it be a nikka that's been all up in her head and heart. He hasn't hit it (yet) but she's fallen madly in love with him. She's willing to do anything he says and asks. She adores him believes in him borderline worships him. She had him on a higher pedestal than you... Its all emotional though, no sex has taken place. She just wanted to be with him more than you. She's over him now (you hope).. But for a brief time he owned her mind heart and soul...

Or..

Would you rather it be a nikka that's been all in that p*ssy. Just one night though. One night for whatever her reasons are she let a guy hit it. No emotional attachment. No ongoing affair. Just one session of him beating up on your girls p*ssy. She wants nothing to do with him after that and has had zero contact with him since..



How do you want it?

 

[Rout3r2035]

Emotional, because then I can just break up with her and keep it moving.

And at least I haven't been sharing them guts with another dude without my knowledge.

 

[Matt504]

To me, both are grounds for dismissal and are equally bad meaning I wouldn't prefer one over the other because it's over either way.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Neither, both getting her a greyhound bus ticket.

 

[Heafcliffe]

Both are fukked up (esp in my case, married).

Physical: Another man has taken her body.

Emotional: Another man has taken her mind.

Done here and I threw/through.

 

[lowkey0z]

doesn't matter, bush status whether spiritual, physical, emotional, etc.

 

[MajorVitaman]

doesn't matter, bush status whether spiritual, physical, emotional, etc.

Thread

 

[street heat]

im gone either way so it doesnt really matter. plus if she said it was just emotional i wouldnt believe her anyway

 

[At30wecashout]

Emotional is a fraction of a fraction of a percentage easier to swallow, cause at least she hasnt acted on anything yet. However, both are terrible for my health.:blacknerdlost:

 

[666 ReVeNGe 666]

Physical? Killing that bish.

Emotional? Killing that bish.

 

[Dank Hill]

Don't both go hand n hand?

 

[KravenMorehead™]

I had to think about it....


They're kinda one in the same.

Spoiler

Both indicate either:

1. a level of detachment from you that was instigated over time by your lack of understanding of your girl and/or women in general, OR
   
2. A level of detachment from you that was there before she even met you, and hidden for obvious reasons, OR
   
3. a level of detachment from men in general that was hidden/overlaid with her "feelings for you", again for obvious reasons.

They both stem from the same shyt, and only (1) is your fault within the relationship. (2) and (3) are your fault outside of/prior to the relationship, for judging her incorrectly/ being scared to judge her correctly because of social reasons.

 

[Marco Zen]

I'm saying if it was a strong relationship..

A lot of time and energy has been invested...

Perhaps even you've been forgiven by her for a mishap or two of your own... So it would only be fair to at least consider not booting her to the bushes right away.

On some "ok I forgive you/ 2nd chance" shyt..

If it had to be one or the other...

 

[MikelArteta]

Both are the same to me, emotional just that they haven't been alone yet

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

I'm saying if it was a strong relationship..

A lot of time and energy has been invested...

She can be my wife of 20 years and mother of my 5 kids...

Cheaters get kicked the fukk out.