If the first thing she asks about is your job or your money than she’s a gold digger … but what if things go on and she never asks

[⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐]

Is she not taking you seriously? Or is she possibly crazy and disassociated from reality

What’s your take brehs

And give some advice to the lipstick lurkers, when is the ideal time for a women to bust this question out and how can she do it without coming off as a blatant gold digger?

 

[Womb Raider]

She probably has other nikkas on her roster that are fulfilling her financial needs…or she’s naive and has her nose wide open.

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

She genuinely likes you for who you are.

 

[Heafcliffe]

In DC, the "...so what do you do?" question is typically one of the first three questions when networking or getting to know someone.

Never been asked about my money outright though.

 

[rabbid]

Most likely she specifically knows how annoying that question is and has trained herself to figure it out in other ways. I wouldnt say she genuinely likes you, she could just be better at hiding that particular interest. its like when u go to the casino and they dont ask for your card right away... they gonna get u when they feel like it.

 

[Treblemaka]

It depends on the caliber of woman youre dealing with.

Alot of women ive dealt with ask that because they want someone in their same tax bracket or someone who actually has the time to take them seriously. If youre dating retail women and CNAs yes thats more of an odd question. If you're dating Marketing Directors, Nurse Practioners, and Program Managers, its not.

 

[Yinny]

In DC, the "...so what do you do?" question is typically one of the first three questions when networking or getting to know someone.

Never been asked about my money outright though.

To be fair, we spend a significant chunk of our days/lives working, it would be odd not to ask?

 

[MegaTronBomb!]

To be fair, we spend a significant chunk of our days/lives working, it would be odd not to ask?

In general, it's considered rude/intrusive to ask someone that as soon as you meet them.

In DC, it's used to immediately identify who someone works+associates with/their political leanings...and how you'll treat them afterwards.Because from that they've already pegged how much you likely make.

 

[MJ Truth]

She genuinely likes you for who you are.

Somebody who genuinely likes you is still gonna wanna know what you do for a living. That’s too big of a part of who you are as a man to never have it brought up.

 

[Neuromancer]

I think it will probably come up in conversation at some point.

 

[AAKing23]

She genuinely likes you for who you are.

That's what I would think

 

[theflyest]

Somebody who genuinely likes you is still gonna wanna know what you do for a living. That’s too big of a part of who you are as a man to never have it brought up.

OP must be ashamed of his job. This should be a non issue. I ask what they do for a living as well.

Your profession doesn’t only reveal how much you make, but you’re availability.

 

[MajesticLion]

The truly observant don't have to ask.

The truly wise will step up with an adult discussion: "hey, I want to get your opinion on a hypothetical budget and investment plan I'm working on, do you have a few minutes?"




If you're stumbling around with some clumsy "so where you work at?" babble...then godspeed, citizen

 

[Givethanks]

Haven't been on a date in a decade but isn't that something both people should ask?

Especially as Adults?

 

[Diyhai]

she probably assessed your earnings by your lifestyle, dates, car and living circumstances