If the first thing she asks about is your job or your money than she’s a gold digger … but what if things go on and she never asks
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.Haven't been on a date in a decade but isn't that something both people should ask?
Especially as Adults?
“What do you do for a living?” is literally one of the first three or four questions someone is going to ask you when they meet you, whether they’re dating you or a casual acquaintance or it’s some random bar conversation. I know a lot of these dudes don’t actually go outside but damn lol.
Plus, a woman who doesn’t ask you about your job or try to inquire how you make money and how much can’t be taking you serious, at all. That’s not gold digging, that’s common sense. Nobody wants to waste their time hanging out with a bum. If you’re worried about someone asking you what you do for a living, you’re clearly living below and are ashamed of yourself.
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Givethanks
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Im saying bro. Finances are usually one of the conversation I feel like most people talk about. If I'm trying to buy a house and live a certain lifestyle she gotta match me or have the potential to.
Hypothetically, the only time I wouldn't care is if I was just trying to get some cat.
CreepyMcCreeperson
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Is it because you need her credit and income to buy the home, or you want to see if she’s responsible?
desjardins
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That's like men who never bring up sex, which is how I move
It instantly makes you more attractive then the men who constantly try to sneak sexual topics into a conversation
We all want the sex, but sometimes not talking about it can get it for you sooner
Same thing for money talk from women. A woman who never brings up my career or position in life is going to appear like a woman who is genuinely interested in ME. It's more likely to progress her quicker in the courting phase cause it removes an annoying aspect (for me) from the equation
It instantly makes you more attractive then the men who constantly try to sneak sexual topics into a conversation
We all want the sex, but sometimes not talking about it can get it for you sooner
Same thing for money talk from women. A woman who never brings up my career or position in life is going to appear like a woman who is genuinely interested in ME. It's more likely to progress her quicker in the courting phase cause it removes an annoying aspect (for me) from the equation
bourgeoisie tall freak
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i don't ask dudes how much they make until after they ask me, so i basically asked just for the sake of the conversation.
i don't ask because it's not hard to estimate based on career field (you are a store manager so you probably make about 50-60k etc) and at the end of the day they usually aren't making more than me so it doesn't really matter in the end. im not going to be asking them for money and im not paying for dikk either.
unless it's something genuinely interesting then i could see myself asking out of curiosity.
it has nothing to do with the level of "like" or anything. it just doesn't matter lol
i don't ask because it's not hard to estimate based on career field (you are a store manager so you probably make about 50-60k etc) and at the end of the day they usually aren't making more than me so it doesn't really matter in the end. im not going to be asking them for money and im not paying for dikk either.
unless it's something genuinely interesting then i could see myself asking out of curiosity.
it has nothing to do with the level of "like" or anything. it just doesn't matter lol
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Both you know.
At this time in my life, I could afford to buy a condo alone, or a house but I'd probably need a roommate to be comfortable for my liking.
Me and my woman recently bought a house — 3 bedroom 600k house. She makes a little less than me, but has the potential to make more than me. If she wasn't making her current salary or had a gang of debt, we'd probably do the 300k condo life. Me personally, i'm not gonna find anyone's lifestyle if they can't take care of themselves you know.
Yeah, responsibility plays a huge part, I know someone who's in debt because traveling is a non-negotiable to them — which is okay, its their life. But man I'm thankful that my woman is as cheap as me — she's extremely responsible when it comes to her spending habits, but I think it comes from a fear of being broke.
