If therapy don't work, then what other options do I have?

[Busted_Toes]

I only had one rule... if i see a therapist. She must be an older black woman that is married. I'm not talking to a man and single women are bitter, so i thought my best bet is an older(50+) married Black woman. I've tried two and we haven't got anywhere and i'm thinking of giving up on this whole therapy thing. All they end up doing is looking at me with unfathomable disgust.

Make it make sense. You tell me to write my feelings in a journal, join this group or do breathing exercises but afterwards i still feel fukked up.

If i throw on a classic, i feel great.

Spoiler

I'm seriously thinking on travelling to the Amazon and doing Ayahuasca, just so i can change.


I'd rather live my life as a trick than continue these bullshyt therapy sessions...

God she looks so good.

Jamaican women >>>

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Take a nice vacation. Spend a few days at the beach, go swimming, spend a few days hiking, go sight seeing, try some yoga.

Just disappear for a while.

 

[CW_1991]

What kind of stealth thread is this?

 

[old pig]

wait—I don’t get how this segued into pornography although I’m very appreciative of the gifs/clips

*edit*

ok nvm I see the “connection” now

 

[Mowgli]

I only had one rule... if i see a therapist. She must be an older black woman that is married. I'm not talking to a man and single women are bitter, so i thought my best bet is an older(50+) married Black woman. I've tried two and we haven't got anywhere and i'm thinking of giving up on this whole therapy thing. All they end up doing is looking at me with unfathomable disgust.

Make it make sense. You tell me to write my feelings in a journal, join this group or do breathing exercises but afterwards i still feel fukked up.

If i throw on a classic, i feel great.

Spoiler

I'm seriously thinking on travelling to the Amazon and doing Ayahuasca, just so i can change.


I'd rather live my life as a trick than continue these bullshyt therapy sessions...

God she looks so good.

Jamaican women >>>

Your only option is what your first option should have been, Brazilian jiu-jitsu

 

[Busted_Toes]

Your only option is what your first option should have been, Brazilian jiu-jitsu

I've thought about it but i don't want to roll on the ground with men.

 

[Mowgli]

I've thought about it but i don't want to roll on the ground with men.

Why's that

 

[F*ckthemkids]

Please go to the Amazon so we don’t have to hear anymore of your whinny bullshyt.

 

[ImmaGetJoeClarkArrested]

Join the nation it’ll give u self respect and optimism for the future

 

[SunZoo]

I only had one rule... if i see a therapist. She must be an older black woman that is married. I'm not talking to a man and single women are bitter, so i thought my best bet is an older(50+) married Black woman. I've tried two and we haven't got anywhere and i'm thinking of giving up on this whole therapy thing. All they end up doing is looking at me with unfathomable disgust.

You have way too many judgements/control issues about when, where, how, with who a healing can take place, that is your problem...most people's problem actually, that YOU think YOU (as in the ego/personality) are in charge and know best how things should go.

Why specifically a married older black woman? What's the control mechanisim there, you missing your mother in some way? A male therapist or even one closer to your age might be able to provide you with the insight you actually need instead of the void you might be trying to fill.

Make it make sense. You tell me to write my feelings in a journal, join this group or do breathing exercises but afterwards i still feel fukked up.

You can only avoid your fukked up feelings so long before you have to move through them. And you cannot do such a thing from this state of mind that you're in. Journaling, breathing exercises, mindfulness are the means to get into a much more expanded state of mind that can help you see your issues in a way that can free you from them.

This is why traditional talk therapy is only good up to an extent. Talking about your problems over and over again without ever switching gears (states of mind) is pointless and a lot of them count on getting you on the merry go round to keep collecting their hourly fee. DBT/Mindfulness training is probably the best bang for your buck.

 

[hatealot]

What are you saying that they be looking at you in disgust?

Don't even mind it. Those female therapist prob have the worse sex game. Prob turn their heads up to the idea of swallowing.

Therapy for your sex addiction isn't going to help you, it's all bullshyt. You might need castration or pills that help with reducing impulsive behavior. They have it for alcoholics and dope heads.