"If there isn’t a rapist in the room, you won’t be raped. No matter what you’re wearing”

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[Discussion] “If there isn’t a rapist in the room, you won’t be raped. No matter what you’re wearing”

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Posted on Sat May 17 21:05:25 2025 UTC

https://v.redd.it/fyw7ysk0qe1f1

Honestly yes, we’ve let predators normalize rape and abuse for a very long time.

It’s not common. It’s not “just how things are”.

Clothing has nothing to do with the being victimized by a predator.

Let’s be for real.

If you aren’t a predator you will not attack someone. Point blank.

Most people aren’t predators. And most rapes or sexual assaults are committed by perpetrators who’ve committed similar crimes in the past.

Women’s gym attire doesn’t attract rapists.

The amount they’ve had to drink doesn’t attract rapists.

A rapist will rape regardless. If you aren’t a predator you won’t see any of these things as “opportunities”, so let’s stop putting the blame and responsibility on the victims.

The only person at fault is the perpetrator.

Also I’d like to note, I completely agree with her ending statement too, y’all weirdos in these comment sections are predators. It’s not normal to stalk people. It’s not normal to comment what you’d do in that situation. It’s not normal to be in people DMs on some fetish shyt. Fortunately there is help available. I’ll link a self help line or something.

If you recognize concerning behaviors in yourself or want to talk to someone anonymously, reach out to RAINN’s National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit RAINN | The nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization for confidential support.
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[Brolic]

@Still Benefited what are your thoughts?

 

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Commented on Sat May 17 21:08:46 2025 UTC

Yep. Rapists even rape animals, corpses and infants- what you wear has NOTHING to do with it.

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│ Commented on Sat May 17 21:26:46 2025 UTC
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│ I mean sorry but you and OOP are kinda missing the point here. I also doubt this story. Not because i would have touched her. But because i doubt that the people that commit armed robbery in such way arent also fukked up sexually.
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│ Yeah according to her she wasnt raped, and that is great because she probaly wasnt. But i have a hard time believing the people who forcefully break in, threaten somebody and restrain them using violence arent the same fukkers who would touch somebody just because they want to.
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│ Also Kim as a good reason to exaggerate the details. The worse she makes the experience the worse the prison sentece for the armed robbers.
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│ And why they didnt touch her? Sure they probaly werent rapist, or its the fact that they didnt have time because they needed to get out.
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│ Its sad to see that people instantly believe this dumb kind of shyt without thinking. People we are talking about armed robbers, they arent the saints. And there is defenitly a big overlap between them and rapist.
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│ │ Commented on Sat May 17 21:30:26 2025 UTC
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│ │ Nah, rape is definitely different than robbery lol
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│ │ Just because you do one crime doesn't mean you're willing to do all crimes.
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│ │ │ Commented on Sat May 17 21:39:47 2025 UTC
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│ │ │ Exactly. Smoking weed can be a crime. I doubt that all illegal weedsmokers are into stealing cars too just because they're both illegal.
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│ │ │ │ Commented on Sat May 17 22:35:54 2025 UTC
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│ │ │ │ I agree with the overall point that "someone who commits robbery isn't necessarily an opportunistic rapist". But the point isn't "it's a crime, so they commit other crimes". It's "they're willing to do some unconscionable things to others, so maybe they're more willing to do other unconscionable things to others than your average citizen would be". Comparing armed robbery to smoking weed just because they are both crimes in certain parts of the world is ridiculous.
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│ │ │ │ │ You get money out of a robbery. It's actual material benefit for a person willing or desparate enough to do the deed.
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│ │ │ │ │ Rape has no material benefit what so ever.
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│ │ │ │ │ These two crimes are MASSIVELY different. Just like smoking and stealing cars. All 4 are crimes with wastly different goals.
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│ │ │ │ │ │ THAT.^ That that that that THAT.
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│ │ │ │ │ │ Robbery is about money. Rape is about power.
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[CopiousX]

Imagine being a billionaire and having security detail so incompetent that you can actually be robbed in your bath robe. I know all them dudes were fired.



If it were me with the billion dollar empire , there'd be a bunch of seal team 6 brehs posted up outside the bathroom door and hanging outside the window like spiderman

 

[VegetasHairline]

How do you even wind up seeing stuff like this?

 

[Hopeofmypeople]

Why does there have to be a discussion about this it’s commonly known that one crime doesn’t equate to another. It’s like being shocked that someone committing fraud (also a crime) isn’t out here forcefully taking cheeks.

 

[bnew]

Why does there have to be a discussion about this it’s commonly known that one crime doesn’t equate to another. It’s like being shocked that someone committing fraud (also a crime) isn’t out here forcefully taking cheeks.

it's because in the comments of the tiktok videos and even the reddit thread, there are men who are expressing disbelief that robbers wouldn't commit rape.

 

[KingSol81]

I find it highly offensive the one commenter who said they doubt robbers aren't also rapists, cant even make an honest living robbing folks anymore without the false equivocation that you're also a sexual predator smh

 

[Braman]

I mean it’s true…..but that’s not the only reason to not dress like a whore

I’ve stumbled onto some younger functions (21-27 age range), and at my gym, and these new age chicks are hypersexiaiized af and have no boundaries. Nipples, aereolas, and ass cheeks are now fair game to expose, all with a ‘ah ah ah, my body my choice ‘ vibe

 

[TRUEST]

Their logic is if you are unhinged enough to rob someone at gunpoint, what else will you do?

A nikkka that slaps a chick cause she didn’t respond fast enough to his text, can and will do far worse for more “serious offenses/disrespect”

 

[Slimkid07]

What's the problem here? She's right.
Those dudes that openly questioned why the robbers didint violate a naked Kim K told on themselves.
This "if there isnt a rapist in the room" is analogous to the "a woman should be able to walk down the street naked and not be touched" hypothetical.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

What is there to disagree with here

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

If a bytch walks naked in a room full of 20 nikkas..the rapist among them ain't gonna do a muthafukking thing

Rapists look for opportunities to rape
Better question is,how many men in that room gonna avert their eyes?
If they rape her with their eyes, they'd probably get physical if they were alone with shorty

 

[JadeB]

I mean it’s true…..but that’s not the only reason to not dress like a whore

I’ve stumbled onto some younger functions (21-27 age range), and at my gym, and these new age chicks are hypersexiaiized af and have no boundaries. Nipples, aereolas, and ass cheeks are now fair game to expose, all with a ‘ah ah ah, my body my choice ‘ vibe

What the hell are you talking about?

 

[thefloorislava]

A lot of people will disagree but I don’t think there’s a binary, as if there’s two groups of men that are capable and incapable of rape. In reality, the same way all human beings have some capacity for violence and evil, we also have the capacity to sexually assault or violate someone given certain circumstances or attitudes within ourselves gone unchecked.

I’m not on that “All men are evil” shyt, because most Men never sexually assault a single person in their lifetime but this idea that we can “never” is dangerous. It’s easy to look at a complete creep and feel morally superior but It’s harder to self reflect and think about how you’d act in nuanced situations. If a baddie came up to you for sex, but she was clearly drunk how would you handle that? If you linked with a girl and the condom slipped off half-way through without her noticing would you do anything about it? If a girl was zoned out and went limp during sex, would you stop and try to communicate or just keep going?

Dudes asking themselves questions like these would prevent a lot of bad shyt from happening