If we don't restore HONOR and SHAME in our families and communities, we're ETERNALLY FUKKED

Tom Foolery

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HONOR
1a :good name or public esteem :reputation
b :a showing of usually merited respect :recognition

SHAME
1a :a painful emotion caused by consciousness of guilt, shortcoming, or impropriety
b :the susceptibility to such emotion


We've gotten to a place were anything goes. You have females having 5 and 6 kids with bums and no one in the family says anything. WTF. You males having 5 and 6 kids with no job or income and no one says anything.

Only God can judge me right? Dumbest quote ever. People use this quote to justify all the horrible mistakes and ignorant shyt they've done.

No one has the balls to shame the shameful. People need to be shamed and bannished if they constantly dishonor their family. Any family that doesn't discipline their dishonorable members is a weak family and will soon be in shambles and chaos like most families.

Seems a lot of people don't even know they're dishonoring their families or even care. Online making a fool of yourself reflects on your upbringing and your family values. You're an embarrassment.

The whole concept of Honor seems to be absent in our community and most of our families. Like most people don't know that your last name suppose to mean and stand for something. That's why you pass it down to your kids. I hate to point out single mothers bcuz it's really a man's job, but I don't think that family honor crosses their mind, bcuz they don't pass down names.


Some of us have an honor code instilled into us by our families that we follow automatically. I'm from the hood, but my family has a code bcuz my dad lived with us. My mom is too nice.

With mom it's, "that's ok baby, don't worry about it. I'll take care of it."
With dad it's, "boy WTF you doing! Get yo azz up and do it again the right way"

You need both. We have so many weak and gay boys in our communities bcuz all they had was mommy saying it's ok baby, you tried, let me buy you jordans and give you a big party even tho you haven't done shyt right.

How are you going to enforce this?

Without the ability to purge the shameful, this all means nothing.
 

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Breh you're not married with any kids so humble yourself.

:stopitslime:You can't have honor for my family if I don't have kids? Are you retarded?

Help yourself then help your family before babbling about solutions for the entire Black community.

I take care of a lot of people in family. Stop assuming dumbazz.

I agree.

But you cant save everybody :yeshrug:



nikkas just gonna look at you crazy anyway :mjlol:


Might as well mind your own business honestly.... If the next man wants to embarrass himself- by all means - let em :yeshrug:

Like others said above me, at this point just take care and handle your business for yourself and your immediate family breh. And find a like-minded woman that wants to build and make your moves bro.

I see a lot of these young millenial mfs (I'm 19) and truth be told it's a wrap for the community in America as far as I can see unless a drastic paradigm shift occurs. A lot of people out here are filing for moral bankruptcy and some people are downright cooked by society

If you say just take care of yourself and not your neighbor and community, you're pretty much saying fukk Black People.

How are you going to enforce this?

Without the ability to purge the shameful, this all means nothing.

I take care of a lot of people in my family, so my word and advice holds weight. You go against the family's suggestions, you get cut off.
 

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You can start with your family. Pound the shyt in they heads. Be an example and then hold them accountable for their action.

my family straight.... but I'm talkin in terms of the whole community... cant save everyone..... you just gonna end up depressed if youre going around trying to save the black community by yourself lol
 

The Minister Of Culture

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Like others said above me, at this point just take care and handle your business for yourself and your immediate family breh. And find a like-minded woman that wants to build and make your moves bro.

I see a lot of these young millenial mfs (I'm 19) and truth be told it's a wrap for the community in America as far as I can see unless a drastic paradigm shift occurs. A lot of people out here are filing for moral bankruptcy and some people are downright cooked by society


^THIS
 
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