If you can't pay for X what do I need you for?

[Neuromancer]

I just realized how toxic this statement is. It's like someone telling you, you're only in my life to be a utility. Why do some people put up with shyt like that? Even worse why do some champion it?

Know yaself, know ya worth, brotha

 

[MajesticLion]

As far as such people are concerned...

 

[J.E.T.S]

Women say this all the time. “As a man, you should handle all the bills.”

dumbest thinking ever.

You spend YOUR money for both of you. She saves and builds herself up, so when she leaves she’s primed for the next nikka to benefit from your hard work and sacrifices.

mane she’ll still swear you didn’t do enough within the relationship.

statements like those are red flags. Has “user” written all over it.