Only if its my blood brother/sister or my closest friends...other than that its none of my business.
If you caught someone cheating would you tell?
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if you know they aren't going anywhere you look like an instigator
For sure. But I'm trying to keep my name clean out here. If my ace or my kin gets their heart broken, it won't be because of anything I withheld from them.
People in this world get mad for folks not telling them the truth, and then they get even angrier because when you do tell the truth, it wasn't what they wanted to hear. People in this world get madder about you catching their person cheating -- and by telling them, "fukking up a happy home" -- than they do about their person cheating. BUT, let you catch them cheating and you say nothing, then when they find out they look at you like
because you stood idly by and let them look dumb as fukk in thinking that their shyt was sweet.They can call me whatever, man. But speaking frankly, if I catch somebody cheating on somebody I care about, I'm telling them more for me than I am for them, because if they look stupid, then by proxy I LOOK STUPID.
I'll snitch on a women no problem
Wait, what? What's the logic behind this because it seems hypocritical
My stance is this; if my brother/sister/cousin/friend cheated on their significant other, and I knew about it, I would definitely not mention it to their significant other. That would be the expectation of my brother/sister/cousin/relative/friend.
Because of this, and because I'm an equitable person, if the tables were turned, I would grant their significant other the same courtesy. No emotion. Just equity.
If I'm being cheated on, I don't need anyone to tell me. I'm savvy enough that I most likely would have picked up or sensed that my girl was stepping out. If, in the chance that I stay in the relationship, for whatever reason, then I would have accepted it. Again, my business, your business. I stay out of yours, you stay out of mine.
I respect the answer.
Ill snitch on a woman tho
K.Dot
African American
I don't feel like I'm "player hating" if it's a women doing it.
If my brother's wife is cheating, I'm telling.
If my brother is cheating, I'm not telling.
If a man has a female friend and he catches her bf cheating and he tells her, then he wants to fukk her if he's not gay.
If my brother is cheating, I'm not telling.
If a man has a female friend and he catches her bf cheating and he tells her, then he wants to fukk her if he's not gay.
Update: Now her sister is mad at her talking about shes trying to break them up, moral of the story mind your businessMy sister got a text from her male friend, with a picture of her sister’s boyfriend kissing a chick on IG, she sent the picture to her sister and her boyfriendhis way out of it. Me and my brother in law both think the dude had no business sending the picture to my sister and now she’s looking at us funny
Update: Now her sister is mad at her talking about shes trying to break them up, moral of the story mind your business
Exactly. A fact of life is that most people are delusional and can’t handle the truth or the reality of things. Ignorance is truly bliss. The best course of action is to just stay out of other people affairs.
And I think this is even more sound advice, especially since it appears that the black community is accepting a very degenerate baby mama/side piece culture.
How? What's the difference? You definitely hating, its just women hating.
K.Dot
African American
That's culturally and socially acceptable.