If you fall out with a chick and cuss her out but try to call back a couple weeks later...

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To apologise and try to get the relationship back on track is that a sign of weakness or is it a sign of maturity? My heart says go get that girl but my brain says let it go all opinions are welcome especially the ladies but most importantly the coli virgins with minimal experience with women.

P.s I'm asking for a friend :thumbsup:
 

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Sign of immaturity if the woman wont accept an apology after a mistake was made and your friend attempted to rectify the situation by apologizing. If she doesn't accept, then off to the bushes she goes.
 

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Apologize for cussing her out, especially if she's a good girl. Understand she may not be accustomed to a man beung that aggressive and as women we're taught that is a form of abuse/red flag so she may A. Run or B. Walk back but with caution. If she is accustomed to that type of escalation then she has probably taught you that its ok to cuss her out and when you get upset again, y'all will be right back in this same predicament except the more you do it the less you'll feel bad about it.

Apologize. Be sure to state the offense, her feelings dye to the offense, and the assurance that it won't happen again (it will). Throw in compliments as women are very vain. Talk in low tones and hold her hands while apologizing with unwavering eye contact. When i was young and dumb that shyt used to always get me...
 

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if you were wrong and apologize because you feel you were wrong (regardless of if she'll be friendly with you or not afterwards) then yes, it's the mature thing to do.

if you are apologizing just because you want to be cool with her again, you miss her, etc. then it's immature.

i've apologized to women for going too hard at them. Within my apology, i still made it a point to mention i meant what i said but should have said it differently.
 

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All is forgiven, I'm gonna eat her ass and that's not even part of some apology bargain :stylin:

Plus I got to skip tricking on Valentine's Day so it's like a double win.

I mean my friend did all that.
 

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Why did you "cuss her out" in the first place? :usure:

There is never a reason to get that upset...if she made you that mad then leave...cussing at a woman and letting her get to you that much is a sign of weakness :ufdup:

In about three weeks she'll be getting piped down by someone else:coffee: while you won't know whether to be happy/sad/apologetic/tough etc.

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making peace is a sign of immaturity? i'd say the tantrum was the sign of immaturity, not building/repairing relationships :francis:
 
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