Teach them a lesson? As if they ain't already being taught. A lot of well put together men are already not dating them cause they have kids. Just getting pumped and dumped. And when they do date and find a good man, it's hard to juggle your man and kids, they don't wanna feel like they are neglecting anybody. Also, they gotta make sure their kids and man get along. Lil Shawn might have the "you not my daddy" syndrome. In addition to this, their baby father may not be shyt. Busy begging that dude for child support and quality time with the kids. He won't answer her calls, so she ending him messages on Facebook or trying to get his attention by blasting him on her wall, so his cousin Shaniqua will see it and tell him. Trust me...Some of these chicks don't need your lessons

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