If you have a bad breakup, do you expect your friends to stop fukking with your ex too?

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A friend of mine is over here texting me pissed off as hell at his "friend".. His "friend" is still cool with his ex who did him dirty, all following each other on social media, liking each other's pics, etc. And the "friend" is being a real dikk to my friend when he wants to talk about the breakup talking about "I don't want to hear your sob story, she wasn't the one, move on"

On one hand, I see why my boy is pissed off.. His "friend" and his ex only knew each other through him, it's not like they were great friends. That feels shady as hell to me, like maybe they're even fukkin, and I probably wouldn't wanna deal with that "friend" anymore either. But at the same time, doesn't shyt like this sorta just happen?

I can't decide how I feel about this one
 

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I'd still be cool with her, depending on what she did.

But I wouldn't be texting her on the regular.... or meeting up for coffee....acting like some Chatty Patty

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Not necessarily. If they built a real friendship, I can't be stubborn and not let them live. Only way I would be mad is if they start dating. Then I would cut them off.
 

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Why? He isn't reporting back to the ex gf about whats going on in that man's life and vice versa then let them cook.

Their friendship should be a completely separate entity from the one the 2 men have. As long as that happens then it shouldn't be an issue.

Ex bf needs to just move forward.
 

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A friend of mine is over here texting me pissed off as hell at his "friend".. His "friend" is still cool with his ex who did him dirty, all following each other on social media, liking each other's pics, etc. And the "friend" is being a real dikk to my friend when he wants to talk about the breakup talking about "I don't want to hear your sob story, she wasn't the one, move on"

On one hand, I see why my boy is pissed off.. His "friend" and his ex only knew each other through him, it's not like they were great friends. That feels shady as hell to me, like maybe they're even fukkin, and I probably wouldn't wanna deal with that "friend" anymore either. But at the same time, doesn't shyt like this sorta just happen?

I can't decide how I feel about this one

That's obviously not his real friend.
 

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Yes... I fell out with one chick who stayed in touch with my ex (texting fb ish).. Let me know that She doesn't have my best interest at heart... No need to surround myself with unneeded headaches...
 

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Women fish in the same pond. If your ex is still associating regularly with one of your friends then he's most likely next in line for her. Facebook and Instagram comments aren't a big deal, what you don't see is.
 
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