If you have no kids could you marry someone with one?

Mirin4rmfar

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No, I just don't want to deal with another man. I also want to experience what's its like having your first child with a childless woman. I have met attractive single mom of one child with their life together but I just can't take that step. Don't want to deal with another man potentially interfering with my family. If I had a child, yeah, I would definitely do it but since I don't. It's a no for me.
 

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I've tried it before b/c I get internally guilt tripped into giving people chances all the time. It wasn't for me.

I would say take it case by case basis. If they are divorced and you see no signs of reconciliation then sure. But it's okay to put urself first and really be honest if you don't want to sign up for the realities of dating someone with a child. I think people get shamed into dating others with kids but you shouldn't be shamed into it or against it. It's all about your personal comfort level.
 

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If it’s just one and I vibe with them enough to pursue a serious relationship than I would consider it later in life.

It’s also to be considered how their relationship is with the other parent, as well as being on the same page after marriage when it comes to parenting. There are some who find it hard to trust the partner who has no biological ties to their kid to properly love and discipline their kid;that can be very problematic if you were to have kids with a partner who doesn’t trust you to parent their first child.
 
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