If you marry a woman without her completing a 1 year probationary period consisting of...

[Torrential]

Feminism is probably the worst thing that ever happened to womankind. Turned potentially loving people into screaming man hating banshees. fukk I look like trying to marry a woman with a chip on her shoulder always competing with me trying to prove some pointless shyt. To these feminists men aren't viewed as partners or lovers they're viewed as enemies. A normal chick will do her part and I'll do mine

 

[DaChampIsHere]

A person in go out on inappropriate outings while in a relationship. Such as late night dinners with the opposite sex, clubs etc and be able to lie since they have space to do so.


Now on Friday night when your in that dress that shows everything, perfume he never smelled and getting ready to "go out"...."bae" gonna want some answers since he now has access to this information


The sort of info statistics don't show

Yeah. Because people who live together don't get cheated on and cheating only happens at late night dinners :

If your woman wants to spend her nights/time with you, neither of you need to put your name on the same lease to do so. And if she wants to cheat on you, y'all living together won't stop it. The fact that you think you have to legally share a lease/space in order to prevent cheating makes no sense.

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If you don't know your woman's eating habits, her cleaning habits, etc. and you're thinking about marrying her so you move in together, you don't really know your woman in the first place and should not be considering marrying her period. Plus these everyone changes it up when they want. Some people just luck up in it all.

 

[Remote]

Both of ours. If we divorce, we selling that bish and splitting the profit.

And @awkwardblackgirl, living together you can gauge each others cleaning habits, eating habits (don't want somebody who's gonna be in the future), how clingy they are, their mood when they come home from work everyday, and their sources of entertainment. These things can be faked when you only see each other once or twice a week, but not while living together for a whole year.

Not wishing divorce on you though.
Hope it all works out for you.

 

[Nintendough]

Yeah. Because people who live together don't get cheated on and cheating only happens at late night dinners :

If your woman wants to spend her nights/time with you, neither of you need to put your name on the same lease to do so. And if she wants to cheat on you, y'all living together won't stop it. The fact that you think you have to legally share a lease/space in order to prevent cheating makes no sense.

Prior
Proper
Planning
Prevents
Piss
Poor
Performance



Life is predictions, pre-planning and constantly being ready. Nothing is for sure but that isn't an excuse to live in blinded bliss, which is what you're promoting.

 

[twan83]

A person going out on inappropriate outings while in a relationship. Such as late night dinners with the opposite sex, clubs etc and be able to lie since they have space to do so.


Now on Friday night when your in that dress that shows everything, perfume he never smelled and getting ready to "go out"...."bae" gonna want some answers since he now has access to this information


The sort of info statistics don't show

thats why i refuse too date any female who wants go out all the fukking time I'm like u with me u wanna go out then go out with ur damn man fukk u going too club all the damn time

i get it u have ur girls nite every so often which is coo but u going out like that in a dress when u dont even dress like that for me
yup I'm sharing that girl

which leads me too do this too her

I've been cheated on some of the most fukked up ways but I'm also very smart enough too know when u gonna do some ignorant shyt too

then they wonder why i gives no fukks or say u can't stop someone from cheating at all
what i look like going thru ur shyt and following u around all i can do is hope ur loyal too me and have common sense

between this thread and the cheating thread I'm over here reliving my worst nightmares again in my past

 

[Mr. Somebody]

I been with my wife for almost 5 years and shes never changed with all the cooking, the cleaning, the giving, and the loving. God has really blessed a friend. I see a lot of my friends have children and fall apart with their ladies in shorter time.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Prior
Proper
Planning
Prevents
Piss
Poor
Performance



Life is predictions, pre-planning and constantly being ready. Nothing is for sure but that isn't an excuse to live in blinded bliss, which is what you're promoting.

(Pointless) Rhetoric.

When you learn that you can't plan people, nor predict them or their behavior, you'll see why you're wrong. Not saying your plan is 100% failure but it's very from factual or common sense. Anyone can act or play a part for short term. That doesn't make them marriage material. You are saying someone is worth marrying because they can pretend for a bit by your standards and that your willing to risk your current financial standing along with your financial standing for the rest of your life off of a couple of months-a year.

 

[Busted_Toes]

Feminism is probably the worst thing that ever happened to womankind. Turned potentially loving people into screaming man hating banshees. fukk I look like trying to marry a woman with a chip on her shoulder always competing with me trying to prove some pointless shyt. To these feminists men aren't viewed as partners or lovers they're viewed as enemies. A normal chick will do her part and I'll do mine

Absolute gospel.

 

[Busted_Toes]

I been with my wife for almost 5 years and shes never changed with all the cooking, the cleaning, the giving, and the loving. God has really blessed a friend. I see a lot of my friends have children and fall apart with their ladies in shorter time.

She Asian breh. If you ask for a meal, she'll start making a meal. Meanwhile in Black households all over America, a man asks for a meal and he hit with "Why can't you make me a meal?". My girl from Nigeria so i ain't got this problem. The beast has really done a number on Black women in America.

 

[Elle Driver]

I agree.

 

[Batman]

Oh and don't act entitled to my shyt just because you bought one piece of furniture and paid half the monthly fees. A white bytch I let move in with me act turnt up because I got sick of the attitude.

 

[Rawtid]

Never live with someone you're not married to.

 

[StickStickly]

Why do y'all care so much about other dudes relationships? Ole cosmo ass nikkas.

What'll work for you ain't gonna work for everybody. If you ain't been HAPPILY married for at least 30-50 years what makes you think your opinion of marriage is relevant?

Don't come crying when y'all, submissive, live in, 50's housewife turns heel after you put a ring on it.

 

[swimmingpools]

Im not shacking up until we're at least engaged.

 

[Raava]

This is one of my biggest problems with women.

Its a pet peeve and deal breaker.