If you re not yourself this is not a relationship...

[2Elusive]

Being dating a guy for 5 months now. Everything is good, we go out, spend time together, we have good convos about music, movies, we laugh a lot, BUT (there is always a BUT) : I don't know shyt about his past (his 30), his last relationship, he seems kinda introverted or not being self confident ( I ve made all the first moves), and I feel these are touchy topics.
And I don t know what is thinking about me, about "us", he seems to be a lot on his mind when I am looking at him. At the end of the day, I m not even my self coz I don't want to push his button.

Next please...

 

[MAKAVELI25]

The fact that you dont know EXACTLY how he feels about you is why you stayed with him for 5 months in the first place. If he was more open with you and told you how he felt about everything then you'd have left him a long time ago. Women love mysterious extroverts, you might not like that hes shy/lacks confidence but its not the mystery thats turning you off

 

[Outlaw]

Being dating a guy for 5 months now. Everything is good, we go out, spend time together, we have good convos about music, movies, we laugh a lot, BUT (there is always a BUT) : I don't know shyt about his past (his 30), his last relationship, he seems kinda introverted or not being self confident ( I ve made all the first moves), and I feel these are touchy topics.
And I don t know what is thinking about me, about "us", he seems to be a lot on his mind when I am looking at him. At the end of the day, I m not even my self coz I don't want to push his button.

Next please...

 

[Jax]

Being dating a guy for 5 months now. Everything is good, we go out, spend time together, we have good convos about music, movies, we laugh a lot, BUT (there is always a BUT) : I don't know shyt about his past (his 30), his last relationship, he seems kinda introverted or not being self confident ( I ve made all the first moves), and I feel these are touchy topics.
And I don t know what is thinking about me, about "us", he seems to be a lot on his mind when I am looking at him. At the end of the day, I m not even my self coz I don't want to push his button.

Next please...

Confront him, don't get yoself trapped in the basement because you're afraid to talk

 

[OPTiMO]

Ignorance is bliss. You'll probably find out some shyt you wish you didn't.

 

[Kalik]

He married... and cheating

 

[2Elusive]

Confront him, don't get yoself trapped in the basement because you're afraid to talk

I've tried a couple of times but he was kinda wyning and try to avoid the subject by looking the other way or making fun about it.

 

[2Elusive]

Ignorance is bliss. You'll probably find out some shyt you wish you didn't.

I kinda did, the fact is that my ex was that kind of person (spent like 8 years together had some self confidence issues and existential crisis due to his childhood and youth- ended up to see a therapist) and I realise I don't want to face the same thing: trying to figure out what s wrong, trying to helping him out and get trapped into this. Or maybe finding out something else yes i dont wish to know about!

 

[andre patton]

why these hoes think just cause a nikka dont talk about a lot of personal shyt...that something is wrong with him or he has some kinda problem.

what if he just dont wanna talk abut shyt thats none of your business?

 

[OPTiMO]

I kinda did, the fact is that my ex was that kind of person (spent like 8 years together had some self confidence issues and existential crisis due to his childhood and youth- ended up to see a therapist) and I realise I don't want to face the same thing: trying to figure out what s wrong, trying to helping him out and get trapped into this. Or maybe finding out something else yes i dont wish to know about!

You may be jumping the gun on this dude since you've dealt with that shyt before. For all you know this dude is normal and just isn't the type of person who likes to talk about the past, being an introvert. i'm the same way.

 

[2Elusive]

why these hoes think just cause a nikka dont talk about a lot of personal shyt...that something is wrong with him or he has some kinda problem.

what if he just dont wanna talk abut shyt thats none of your business?

I'll just ignore your post.

 

[2Elusive]

You may be jumping the gun on this dude since you've dealt with that shyt before. For all you know this dude is normal and just isn't the type of person who likes to talk about the past, being an introvert. i'm the same way.

Yes see your point, maybe it's just a feeling but I d like to know where i'm going.

 

[andre patton]

I'll just ignore your post.

guess you really are too elusive

 

[Diondon]

That nicca is a hitman on the run.
Save yourself.

 

[Ain't That Something]

You getting played. He basically spoon feeding you and stringing ya ass along. His giving you enough to be alive but starving you so you don't go nowhere. It's the I like you but I'm not ready for a relationship strategy. I use to eat good of that one