if you unsure if a female like you or not

[Wild self]

Why don't you just ask her?

If a guy ever told me to buy him dinner, I would stop talking to him. I don't care how much I liked him before.

but you expect a dude to do the same

 

[Ashley Banks]

but you expect a dude to do the same

Actually, I don't.

I'm sure a dude would be annoyed/turned off if I told him to buy me dinner. You should let people offer it, not tell them to do it. but that's just my opinion.

 

[winb83]

tell her to buy you to dinner

thats the best way real talk

chick took me out friday bought food and drinks
i aint have to plan or ask nicely
just flat out. take me out to eat

if she give you any excuses you not number 1 on her list so wait yo turn

I thought you were gonna say something like purposely tell her no next time she ask for something and watch her response.

 

[cleanface coney]

what about if she buy you mcdonald's

thats cool imo

it dont matter the food honestly but its true

 

[cleanface coney]

Sounds quite desperate and thirsty on behalf of the woman. If a guy I liked told me to take him out and buy him dinner I'd be turned all the way off.

And before anyone tries to flip it I would never ask a man to buy me dinner either. If he offers, that's different.

why? its supposed to be mutual

if its mutual i would do the same thing

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

It's different if a dude asks me to go halfies or if *I* suggest paying.... I'm not gonna pay if some dude says, "Pay for my dinner." I mean come on.

I would happily make a guy a meal though, but I would prefer it to be something I'm doing out of love, not because he ordered me to.

Exactly!

 

[teeswinger]

A fundamental failure of the female mind is not even so much the expectation but the insistence on a free lunch --i.e. something for nothing, indulgence without repayment or consequences.

 

[concise]

what about if she buy you mcdonald's