If your bro/sis cheated on their spouse, would you still love them?

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My brother has been cheating on his girlfriend for two years with several different women.

Im not proud because I'd never do it, but that's my brother. Id go to bat for that guy. Feel bad for his lovely GF, but that's my blood.

:camby:

Girlfriend is 1 thing but I'm talking married with kids.

You ok with your bro/sis breaking up a black family?
 
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Girlfriend is 1 thing but I'm talking married with kids.

You ok with your bro/sis breaking up a black family?

If their relationship progressed to marriage or kids, absolutely not. My parents have been married for 26 years, and weathered some storms to put the family first. I'm a monogamous person. Generational power and stability comes from monogamy, nothing good comes from new p*ssy. If you have someone that takes care of you and lets you excel, hold on to that person. You likely will never find someone else like that again.

Unless you are in an abusive or deceitful relationship, the grass isn't always greener. I always recommend people work on their relationship problems before blowing it up. Especially if you find someone good at your lowest. They are the most loyal partners from my experience.
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
My brother did this very thing...
i got love for but I don't have love for him..
Not because he cheated (because people do that shyt everyday)but he doesn't take care of his kids the way he should..
Plus he laid up with some bum bytch that was a buss down in the post office he worked at(nikka got fired for stealing Netflix movies)..
The thing is how he lied and cut all the people who really cared for him out his life for ol girl and now she is giving him hell.
Plus he stopped calling ma dukes and when she was in the hospital 2 years ago, didn't call her once and I had to call my ex sister in law just to relay the message which we became closer after all this fukkery..
All I ever told him is just take care of your kids(they are hella smart and really good kids) and ma dukes..
I pretty much gave up on our relationship. I know it makes my moms sad but if someone keeps reaching out and they slap your hand away, fukk it..
Hopefully one day we can repair it but I don't see it in the foreseeable future:francis:
 
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