If your friends got "beef" w/ someone, does that mean you do too?

[valet]

Some people (men and women) hold the view that if your friends got beef or a problem with another person. Then that means you can't be friends with that person. Do you hold that view? Or can you be friends with people your other friends don't get along with? And if you do, does that strain your relationship with your friends?

 

[stealthbomber]

depends on what friend is beefing and with who

 

[BrothaZay]

Yes,

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

it depends on what they did to my friend because there are always two sides to every story. but if i can tell my friend was just straight up disrespected, then i will take their side. but when there's problems between friends, i try to stay as neutral as possible about everything, even though i can usually tell who's to blame for something in particular. actually, some of my friends have been having problems with one of our other friends. the one guy is fukking up hard, so i understand why everyone else is having a problem with him. but, he hasn't done anything to me (yet) so i still talk to him, partly out of necessity. but, the guy is really really fukking up...

 

[Sinnerman]

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

Not necessarily, I probably wouldn't talk about my friend to the person they have beef with tho. Unless it's some serious shyt, then that's between them.

 

[FukkaPaidEmail]

No,I'm not in high school anymore.

 

[Libra Lady]

It really depends on the situation. If the person who my friend is "beefing" with is a associate of mine, than I would continue to be cordial. If said person wasn't someone I knew and my friend had a problem with them, I definitely wouldn't try to befriend them and it would be a very hi/bye situation when I saw them. Now I'm not gonna start shyt with others and be scowling at people that my friend may be beefing with, I would however be wary of the person.

 

[brooklynsfate]

Depends on the friend. If I hold the person in high regards then yes their issues with other are mine to an extent. If its someone who is constant issue though then no and really would have to reevaluate that person.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

What if your woman doesnt like a girl? Do you have to share a dislike for that girl as well?

 

[Lucky Millionaire]

I was in two situations like this. In one, I ended up supporting my friend because the person he had problems with disrespected me as well. In the other situation I didn't ride with my dude because it started over some petty bullshyt and it wasn't worth the hassle. I kinda stopped hanging with both of them until they saw each other, talked it out, and dapped it up.

IDK it depends on the circumstances. If my friend was cool w/ someone I didn't like it's their life but I would be a lil concerned if I was brought up in their conversations. I could be friends w/ someone my friend doesn't like but I'd be mindful of their problems. It can, and usually will, strain your relationships to a degree.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

What if your woman doesnt like a girl? Do you have to share a dislike for that girl as well?

no, because most fights between women are petty. or at least the ones i've experienced while having a girlfriend. that's not to say my rule is to never take my girlfriend's side when she's having a disagreement with another girl, but as of this point in my life i haven't seen or experienced any situation where the "beef" was justifiable. and, to be honest, the only beefs i've experienced were based on the fact that my girlfriend would think some girl was trying to come on to me. which might have been true, but it's no reason to be aggressive about it. if she can't trust me enough to know that i would handle the situation properly, then that's insecurity. hence why i said the fights have been petty...

 

[*Angel*]

Thats how followers show loyalty.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

no, because most fights between women are petty. or at least the ones i've experienced while having a girlfriend. that's not to say my rule is to never take my girlfriend's side when she's having a disagreement with another girl, but as of this point in my life i haven't seen or experienced any situation where the "beef" was justifiable. and, to be honest, the only beefs i've experienced were based on the fact that my girlfriend would think some girl was trying to come on to me. which might have been true, but it's no reason to be aggressive about it. if she can't trust me enough to know that i would handle the situation properly, then that's insecurity. hence why i said the fights have been petty...

Truth. @ females wantin their man to hate a girl just cuz she dated her ex or some shyt.

Men dont give a fukk bout that shyt

nikka better confront his girl like why u still harborin feelings for your ex?

 

[Red Omega]

pretty much yes