If you're ugly, is there a specific way to dress that will help you to catch more women's eyes?

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OP, just make sure your clothes are clean and you smell decent. Keep your hairline sharp if its cut low, keep it moisturized if its longer. But smelling good goes a long way.

Because it's not important if she's thinks you're attractive or not, what's important is whether she feels that YOU think you're nice looking. Women love confident men. They are going to pick up on that vibe. Also don't talk a lot or try to be a comedian around a bunch of women. Save that for personal, one on one conversations.

Look a woman in her eyes when you walk past her, don't hold your head down or look away. She may may not be looking at you at first, but if you get eye contact, smile and say hello. Women will give you rhythm if you don't over do shyt. Women used to give me rhythm all the time when I was younger, but I was just an anti-social a$$hole so I kept missing out on potential mates.


Another key point: If there's a woman who you're in and see on a daily basis, like a job or a college campus, or a coffee shop; and she hangs out with other women, get friendly with the woman who you feel is the least attractive or who you think gets the least amount of attention. Charm the shyt out of her without giving the impression that you want to fukk her. Women love competition and pretty soon all of her friends will try to get you to pay attention to them.
 

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Just don't look sloppy breh.

Act like you actually give a fukk about yourself and no woman is going to call you ugly.

Most folk that are "ugly" demonstrate it in the worst way...they don't shave, breath be stank, clothes ain't been washed or ironed in weeks...

You'll be alright.
You got some rep coming your way.:salute:
 

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No there isn't a specific way to dress. You should just wear what you want to wear and put effort into it. Ignore advice about wearing a suit or looking like a clean cut choir boy. You don't need to stick to a specific type of look because there are women for all types of dudes for any style.

Focus on making sure you're clean, clothes fit well and looking flashy helps. The most important thing is to not look boring or lazy.
 

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Just don't look sloppy breh.

Act like you actually give a fukk about yourself and no woman is going to call you ugly.

Most folk that are "ugly" demonstrate it in the worst way...they don't shave, breath be stank, clothes ain't been washed or ironed in weeks...

You'll be alright.
These are facts. Simple hygiene improvements and wearing clothes that don't look like you just pulled them out the hamper can do wonders for confidence.
 
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You need to have a certain aesthetic
l dress in a lot of Nike for example so my aesthetic is athleisure
Then find the kind of colors and prints you like and develop a code (hence dress code, duh) of what you like to put together.


Man that Nike workout gear look dope on nikkas who's in shape


 

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Ain't you say you stayed in the gym? Wear form fitting t shirts that show off your body, but then again it's winter time so chicks ain't gon see what you working with under all them layers.
 
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