“I’m a 29 year old profesional woman with my own place. How am I STILL single but this OF model isn’t?”

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She was my high school crush, and I shot my shot during COVID. I’m not posting about not getting women, and encountering women who don’t think I’m good enough, even before I met her. A 36 year old woman isn’t on the clearance rack. Coli brehs don’t even want to take a woman to dinner on the first date, then complain that women’s standards are so high. The Coli shows me why women post the things they do. Because y’all have high standards for them, but don’t think you need to bring anything to the table.
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Based on my calculations, you waited 18 year for that p*ssy. That thang wasn't even on clearance, it was discontinued :pachaha:
 

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nikkas be really thinking these chicks have no suitors, no woman is ever without suitors
They have suitors of men that want to fukk them. They don't have suitors of men that want to marry them, give them their last name, and have them raise his children. They gotta get a nikka fresh out the SHU for that :wow:
 

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Being single isn't the end of the world. The Bible rails against coveting for a reason. People kill me with this. Count your blessings. You may not even be relationship or even marriage material. And guess what? That's not a big deal regardless of what society tells people.

And once again nobody is owed a relationship.
 

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I’m slightly confused, so according to this thread, dudes really DON’t want a 50/50 split with their partner then, right? I see all these threads from guys complaining about broads not doing their fair share to contribute to the relationship or the bills, but now dudes in here are saying that your education, salary & credentials don’t mean shyt to most men. Is it Oochie Walley, or is it One Mic? :patrice:

This is such a surface level take on the 50/50 discussion. 50/50 doesn’t even mean an even financial split, it’s means both people contributing to the household in an equitable manner. If one person makes 120k and the other makes 35k clearly a 50/50 financial split won’t work.

50/50 financially stems from men looking at a relationship where both parties make relatively the same amount of money and the man is asked to contribute significantly more financially WHILE ALSO taking on an equal or more share of the household duties. If the man is paying all bills and then has to come home to do the yard work, cook, do laundry, wash dishes, vacuum the floor, help kids with homework, etc……. At some point he is going to look around and ask exactly what is the woman contributing. If she isn’t performing household duties and is keeping all her money to spend on herself, then what contribution is she making other than p*ssy?
 
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The girl in the video is talking about basic shyt that every person (man or woman) should have. Congratulations on being an adult.

At the same time you have dudes in here talking about dating pleasant women who make minimum wage and work at a fast food spot because she’s got “good energy” :mjlol:

I genuinely cannot fathom how you guys consider marrying someone who is financially unstable and then cry about how dependent women are - and how the alimony / child support laws are fukked up

A woman’s accomplishment is not the single decider in whether to pursue a relationship (or whether it will prosper) but the idea that it’s not a contributing factor in a man’s decision process is asinine to me.
 
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The girl in the video is talking about basic shyt that every person (man or woman) should have. Congratulations on being an adult.

At the same time you have dudes in here talking about dating pleasant women who make minimum wage and work at a fast food spot because she’s got “good energy” :mjlol:

I genuinely cannot fathom how you guys consider marrying someone who is financially unstable and then cry about how dependent women are - and how the alimony / child support laws are fukked up

A woman’s accomplishment is not the single decider in whether to pursue a relationship (or whether it will prosper) but the idea that it’s not a contributing factor in a man’s decision process is asinine to me.
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A broke woman doesn't contribute anything to building wealth during marriage. If she taking half she taking a huge chunk of what you built versus a woman who can contribute more financially 40-50% then the split is more fair.

I wouldn't say that personally.

There's a lot to be said for woman who can play her part in a relationship with a successful man.
 

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I do find all that sexy, far reaching professional accomplishments, degrees, been out with some fairly accomplished women, in some respectives. Met someone the other night who was retired at like 43, didn't even ask what company she sold, or whatever, but it's probably pretty fukking impressive.

but, culturally, we push a lot of these narratives, of qualifiers and checklists, and therefore dating starts feeling like a resume reading. Remember in 2017 was out with someone who I was extremely attracted to, and while we are being driven to dinner, we had a great convo, but at some point she launched into what I would describe as basically reading a resume, which kinda cracked me up, and I was thinking she doesn't know she's out with someone who has never even graduated college.

Sometimes women tell me their credit score, and salary, first time we meet.
 
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