I’m a groomsman at a wedding and I don’t wanna go

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My ex is a bridesmaid for the wife. We broke up almost 2 years ago after 6 yrs. Her entire family is gonna be there too. I’m gonna get mean mugs the whole night. We didn’t leave on bad terms but I have social anxiety. Take pills on and off. I’ve been off them for the past year but I might just tell him I got Covid
 

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My ex is a bridesmaid for the wife. We broke up almost 2 years ago after 6 yrs. Her entire family is gonna be there too. I’m gonna get mean mugs the whole night. We didn’t leave on bad terms but I have social anxiety. Take pills on and off. I’ve been off them for the past year but I might just tell him I got Covid
Meh. Take ur Xanax and go. Don’t fucck up dudes day over something so trivial. And u could have this work to ur advantage if there’s gonna be a few people at the wedding u can chat with without looking lonely.

Whatever u do, don’t show ur anxiety on ur face. I know weed helps here a lot. It will have u staring a hole into people and sh1t having them nervous lol. Alright I got carried away. But u must go. Don’t do ur man’s like that.
 

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Her entire family is gonna be there too. I’m gonna get mean mugs the whole night. We didn’t leave on bad terms but I have social anxiety.


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Why not just do what your contractually obligated to do (be a groomsman in the wedding) where no one is allowed to talk to you anyways, and then bounce right after eating at the reception so you don’t have to do any of that phony ass small talk with anyone? You’re there for the pictures and his memories but nobody is going to fault you for eating and running if you don’t have a date locked down and your ex will be all in your shyt.
 

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Then why did you agree to be in it? You know you got social anxiety!:gucci:

You better double up on your meds and hit that church on time.

You can’t leave breh hanging cuz you don’t wanna be mean mugged :childplease:
 

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Meh. Take ur Xanax and go. Don’t fucck up dudes day over something so trivial. And u could have this work to ur advantage if there’s gonna be a few people at the wedding u can chat with without looking lonely.

Whatever u do, don’t show ur anxiety on ur face. I know weed helps here a lot. It will have u staring a hole into people and sh1t having them nervous lol. Alright I got carried away. But u must go. Don’t do ur man’s like that.
I’m try not to rely on medication plus alcohol and Xanax is dangerous af

But thanks for the advice
 
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