And this is where women need to be honest with their friends.
They tell their fat friends they look good in bikinis and lie to their ugly friends faces. Men will tell their friends if they look like shyt.
This chick ended up as a cum rag for French African men. Easy pickings for them
I’ve thought about this.
You can’t go around telling your friends they are considered unattractive.
Family can’t say that either.
At some point you have to be aware of how the world receives you, and make tweaks, if you wish, to see a possible difference.
I can totally say that if I gain 20lbs society will treat me differently. I can truly not care and keep it pushing, or I can drop the 20 and get better treatment.
You can do the same experiment with improving your skincare routine, changing hair styles, changing your fashion choices.
All those things help everyone. Beyond that, yes; common sense would say to factor in level of physical attractiveness.
It’s such a tough topic for women because no one wants to come out and say that this is what society primarily wants from us- beauty. It’s acknowledged on a macro scale, sure, but you don’t sit around talking about it ad nauseam, and especially not with someone who doesn’t have it. Because if you don’t have it naturally or don’t know how to enhance your looks/appeal… it’s like you’re telling someone they aren’t good enough as is.
It’s just a sensitive subject.
It’s like how a lot of ppl won’t necessarily tell you that you’re fat, but they will treat you much differently when you drop the weight.
At the end of the day, if she feels seen, validated and is courted properly by someone from another region, so be it. That happens to a lot of ppl. As long as she understands what it means to be truly valued and respected…
I can’t. I’m going back to bed.
Brought out one of the basketball cards nobody wants all stars
