I'm confused...

[thirdeye]

I was reading one of those threads about the complete woman, I know a few complete women that are single but is it their fault?

When threads upon threads where these guys say I'm not ready to settle or date seriously until 30ish but what about the women the same age? Are we forced to date someone older or wait till they have all the fun so they can settle down after?

I'm about 25 and a lot of guys I know would rather be single and date a variety of girls, what if I don't want to be in the stable? What are our options at that point?

Just a random thought I had, sorry if it's incoherent...I been drankin...
Discuss

 

[Elle Driver]

Let them tell it, a single complete woman is a woman with deep seated issues. But for us, it just means we haven't found someone who's up to our standards. Never compromise your standards for anybody.

 

[thirdeye]

Let them tell it, a single complete woman is a woman with deep seated issues. But for us, it just means we haven't found someone who's up to our standards. Never compromise your standards for anybody.

I would never, being in a relationship isn't worth me lowering mine. NAH. It's just funny to see their thoughts on a complete woman while reading some of their posts in other threads

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I was reading one of those threads about the complete woman, I know a few complete women that are single but is it their fault?

When threads upon threads where these guys say I'm not ready to settle or date seriously until 30ish but what about the women the same age? Are we forced to date someone older or wait till they have all the fun so they can settle down after?

I'm about 25 and a lot of guys I know would rather be single and date a variety of girls, what if I don't want to be in the stable? What are our options at that point?

Just a random thought I had, sorry if it's incoherent...I been drankin...
Discuss

Your option is to wait.
Or go to Italy like @Elle Driver and find you a white dude

 

[CinnaSlim]

There are a lot of guys willing to commit, a lot of those guys end up bitter and hurt over committing to the wrong girls. Also, some guys put their worth in relationships and women where they think you are supposed to be this miracle woman who is going to fix their problems.

So on top of finding someone who is gonna commit to you, you have to find someone you are willing to commit too.

I just stopped looking for "him". And just focused on myself. Eventually, you'll find a decent man. While you aren't eager to jump into a relationship, you can also get to know him on a casual platonic level and see if he's worthy of dating.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

There are a lot of guys willing to commit, a lot of those guys end up bitter and hurt over committing to the wrong girls. Also, some guys put their worth in relationships and women where they think you are supposed to be this miracle woman who is going to fix their problems.

So on top of finding someone who is gonna commit to you, you have to find someone you are willing to commit too.

I just stopped looking for "him". And just focused on myself. Eventually, you'll find a decent man. While you aren't eager to jump into a relationship, you can also get to know him on a casual platonic level and see if he's worthy of dating.

Casual platonic...

Be a friend brehs

 

[OfTheCross]

You been drankin?

It's 1pm

 

[thirdeye]

You been drankin?

It's 1pm

I don't work during the day

 

[BezO]

I was reading one of those threads about the complete woman, I know a few complete women that are single but is it their fault?

When threads upon threads where these guys say I'm not ready to settle or date seriously until 30ish but what about the women the same age? Are we forced to date someone older or wait till they have all the fun so they can settle down after?

I'm about 25 and a lot of guys I know would rather be single and date a variety of girls, what if I don't want to be in the stable? What are our options at that point?

Just a random thought I had, sorry if it's incoherent...I been drankin...
Discuss

I wouldn't recommend anyone settlin' down before 30, at least. Especially not us men. Folks need experience & accomplishments prior. You haven't found yourself at 25 to even know what to look for in another person.

Personally, I think it takes a woman until 30 to figure out what's essential vs what's trivial.

 

[NobodyReally]

I know too many women who are in relationships just so they don't look weird. For me, doing things for other people's validation is the epitome of being incomplete.

 

[Ashley Banks]

You have to learn to not take what you read on here seriously. Most of the guys on here change their opinion depending on the point they're trying to make.