i don't think this is a feminist issue. i think it is about men & women being inconsistent with beliefs due to selfishness. Actual patriarchy or feminism has pros and cons for both genders. Most people try to only enforce patriarchy and feminism when it suits them because they are selfish. They do this even if they are one of those anti-feminism dudes or anti-patriarchy women.
so the guy in the tweets want her to take on the role of a women under patriarchy cooking & cleaning for him yet be independent working for her own like under feminism. he just wants the pros. nothing is all pros.
for balance, a female example would be expecting to be viewed as independent yet also expecting guys to always pay for dates or your bags and shopping sprees.
