I’m jealous of couples like this

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1. Negged for posting a broken link

2. Being jealous of anyone’s relationship is a bad move. You don’t know how much time/work they put in, and you also don’t know what they go thru behind closed doors.
I don't think being jealous is another relationship is so bad.
Maybe "being jealous" is the wrong word.

But I definitely admire people who have been married for like 50, 60 years and are still happy with one another.
Every relationship is work, but when people have those long years together it says a lot about their commitment to the work, and each other.
 

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I don't think being jealous is another relationship is so bad.
Maybe "being jealous" is the wrong word.

But I definitely admire people who have been married for like 50, 60 years and are still happy with one another.
Every relationship is work, but when people have those long years together it says a lot about their commitment to the work, and each other.
i disagree.

As a man, nothing turns me off more than a woman I’m dealing with constantly comparing the shyt I do to the shyt another man does…for instance “Oh her man gives him his credit card for lunch!” “Oh her husband brings her lunch and edible arrangements to work” “oh I want a playful and loving relationship like theirs!” *continues to be display the tendencies of a shallow, pretentious, impatient and otherwise unworthy woman*

I don’t want to hear about shyt another man does, it makes me not want to do shyt for a woman.
 

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i disagree.

As a man, nothing turns me off more than a woman I’m dealing with constantly comparing the shyt I do to the shyt another man does…for instance “Oh her man gives him his credit card for lunch!” “Oh her husband brings her lunch and edible arrangements to work” “oh I want a playful and loving relationship like theirs!” *continues to be display the tendencies of a shallow, pretentious, impatient and otherwise unworthy woman*

I don’t want to hear about shyt another man does, it makes me not want to do shyt for a woman.
Well I'm not talking about that.

I'm talking about admiring someone else's relationship...potentially using theirs as a general template for the kind of relationship you'd want for yourself.

What you're talking about is trashing your own relationship in comparison to someone else's.


Put another way....it would be like saying "I'm jealous of the home that X-person bought"....and not "X-person has a nice house....my place looks like shyt"
 

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I think most people compare in an unhealthy fashion. I hope the term you’re looking for is more fulfilling than “jealous”. Would hate to feel that way because I observed something
 

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Well I'm not talking about that.

I'm talking about admiring someone else's relationship...potentially using theirs as a general template for the kind of relationship you'd want for yourself.

What you're talking about is trashing your own relationship in comparison to someone else's.


Put another way....it would be like saying "I'm jealous of the home that X-person bought"....and not "X-person has a nice house....my place looks like shyt"
Op used the word jealous…jealousy is not the same as admiration.
 

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Don’t ever look at a couple on social media and think that’s how they really are. I’ve been the other man to a woman in a very front facing internet couple so believe me ppl sometimes put up fronts.
 

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i disagree.

As a man, nothing turns me off more than a woman I’m dealing with constantly comparing the shyt I do to the shyt another man does…for instance “Oh her man gives him his credit card for lunch!” “Oh her husband brings her lunch and edible arrangements to work” “oh I want a playful and loving relationship like theirs!” *continues to be display the tendencies of a shallow, pretentious, impatient and otherwise unworthy woman*

I don’t want to hear about shyt another man does, it makes me not want to do shyt for a woman.



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