Which is crazy cuz if it's someone I don't care about or just wanna fucc or look at as a fetish I can treat them any kind of way in bed naturally
But with my actual girlfriend I can't bring myself to do that same type of stuff. The problem is it's stuff she likes
Any one ever have this problem. Or any ladies familiar with it
That ain't the problem that's actually a blessing albiet one you ain't trying to take advantage of despite prolly being the type of person who ain't into all that ''demeaning'' sex and just like to keep things vanilla with a slight side of freaky. I'm the same way since I don't go out of my way to treat broads I'm in a relationship like chattel, but some broads actually love that sort of stuff just as long as they can get comforted afterwards and respected since they want to extrapolate being smutted out in the bedroom from being disrespected all together.
Find a balance and focus your sexual energy in just wearing her out as opposed to treating her like a pornstar unless she pushes for that sort, but you'll be alright just as long as you do the shyt she wants, drive her to the edge and let her know that you ain't so much treating her as a slut, but you making her YOUR, slut.