Yes I do. Like I get it yall nikkaz are shook of marriage cool. But for the ones that do it why would you wish ill will on that? To me there’s benefits to marriage even though it has its flaws. Most people that get divorces it’s not something they expect to do, it happens people change over the years and you can only control what you can control and of course there’s a risk to it. But it can also be beautiful with the right one. You have someone that is always in your corner those days you can only do 32 percent of your day and they can pick up the mantle and do the rest. Also if you have children setting the foundation and giving them the balance of seeing how a marriage works like I take my hat off to single parents that do it by themselves but it’s much easier when there’s two and both are active parents. Also the dual income as crazy as the economy is it’s hard as shyt for a single person to live life on they own or get a house without a partner these days. The black community could benefit from household income if there were more marriages.
I’m controversial on this point but I think the best time to get married is when you both have nothing in terms of resources so you can trully see if you could love someone when they have nothing. When you build together and shyt happens down the line then you have no resentment since you both got it out the mud together.