That's in all modern communities. Being feminine, motherly, supportive = backwards, weak, low intellect.
Being driven, career and goal oriented, domineering, charismatic (i.e values that are typically associated with masculinity) = modern, success, yaaas queen, go getter etc
Men and women are in competition now. Competing for jobs. Competing for dominance in society. Even the family unit is a place of competition now.
Like I said in that other thread, if you see things through the lens of 'inversion', a lot of things in the modern world will make sense to you.