Short and long term relationships, what have you learned from them? Doesn't even have to be yours, could be a friend's, parent's etc etc.
In my 1st relationship, the biggest lesson I probably learned was that when somebody breaks up with you, do not try to win them back. Say the break up occurs after an angry argument and seems impulsive, just let it go for a day or two so things cool down. Discuss the incident with the other party later in a civil, respectable and logical manner, if they choose not to compromise or look at the situation from a different perspective (not yours necessarily) then just give up and cease. Trying to drive your point across is only gonna make you look controlling and arrogant.
I did not want to believe the importance of power or hand in a relationship but that was the naiive teen in me. Luckily I didnt know her exact address cause she moved or else I probably woulda showed up at her door, or sent some flowers or some shyt to her crib who knows. This aint television though, do that and youve notified them that they have you on lock. You would like to believe it doesnt happen but I've had girls show me text messages and deeds of other dudes like "look at this weak ass nikka
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Another big lesson I learned is to follow your instinct. Just because you had a special bond at one point with that person, dont think that they cant possbily cheat, or leave you down and out without any ruths. Often dudes will ignore the signs.
"Nah, no way she dumped me and is already chopping it up with this next dude in that instagram pic. No way is that nikka tweeting her really hittin it up."
"She'll eventually come back, I treated her so well. As soon as she realizes how poor these other dudes are she'll realize." *Proceeds to answer breadcrumb msg*
No she wont.
Thats what I got for now....gotta get back to work. What yall got?
In my 1st relationship, the biggest lesson I probably learned was that when somebody breaks up with you, do not try to win them back. Say the break up occurs after an angry argument and seems impulsive, just let it go for a day or two so things cool down. Discuss the incident with the other party later in a civil, respectable and logical manner, if they choose not to compromise or look at the situation from a different perspective (not yours necessarily) then just give up and cease. Trying to drive your point across is only gonna make you look controlling and arrogant.
I did not want to believe the importance of power or hand in a relationship but that was the naiive teen in me. Luckily I didnt know her exact address cause she moved or else I probably woulda showed up at her door, or sent some flowers or some shyt to her crib who knows. This aint television though, do that and youve notified them that they have you on lock. You would like to believe it doesnt happen but I've had girls show me text messages and deeds of other dudes like "look at this weak ass nikka
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Another big lesson I learned is to follow your instinct. Just because you had a special bond at one point with that person, dont think that they cant possbily cheat, or leave you down and out without any ruths. Often dudes will ignore the signs.
"Nah, no way she dumped me and is already chopping it up with this next dude in that instagram pic. No way is that nikka tweeting her really hittin it up."
"She'll eventually come back, I treated her so well. As soon as she realizes how poor these other dudes are she'll realize." *Proceeds to answer breadcrumb msg*
No she wont.Thats what I got for now....gotta get back to work. What yall got?
