I’ve been in this woman’s position lol. I know why she sounds so nonchalant too. I’m dead. When an emotional man who love you more than you love him is upset with you it can be a bit much. I would only get a few words out, while listening to his overemotional speech that would just go on and on and on. Usually I tuned out and got on my computer. he always noticed. “Are you still there? Your not saying anything!” But everytime I would talk he would cut me off or get even more emotional. it just annoyed me. The thing is ,when it happens often enough you just stop giving a fukk. I can tell that this wasn’t her first time having this kind of call with him.