Interpersonal pet peeves you've developed as you've gotten older.

[Scustin Bieburr]

1. Not answering a direct question directly.
2. filler words(um, like)
3. Rapid speech
4. Upper inflections(every sentence ends like the speaker is asking you a question)
5. Use of neologisms (That woman is acting stalkery)
6. Using nouns as verbs(I'm 'adult'ing )

Stuttering is becoming one for me. When someone is in porky pig mode I just tell them to slow down and take their time or else I ask them to send me a message later. I get the feeling that conversation itself is a dying art form and people are forgetting how to actually relay information verbally in a clear, concise, and meaningful way.

 

[macadomusic]

Graffiti

 

[Mowgli]

Grammar Nazis at the McDonald's drive through,
"Can I get a large Fry?"

Fry? What? A large french fries?

 

[Asicz]

willful inconsistency or incongruency in terms of logic or statements.

Double standards

Hypocrisy

This is a frequent feature of the coli lol

YouTube comments that used to complain about down votes. Like, why do you care? And a lot of time it is accidental.

 

[Mr Clean]

Adding I feel or I think to every sentence to seem less confrontational when expressing ideas. It's coming from you, I know it's your feelings and thoughts. Add in my opinion to your opinion brehs

This is how they try to play you too with the old, "I feel unsafe/threatened." So are you unsafe or do you feel threatened? "No"

 

[Asicz]

Micro aggressions from white people/ non Black people - purse clutching/shifting or locking car doors when they make eye contact with you in the parking lot etc.

 

[Asicz]

Adding I feel or I think to every sentence to seem less confrontational when expressing ideas. It's coming from you, I know it's your feelings and thoughts. Add in my opinion to your opinion brehs

This is how they try to play you too with the old, "I feel unsafe/threatened." So are you unsafe or do you feel threatened? "No"

I feel like I say "I feel like" sometimes because some things are not certain or undecided. That is part of growing, learning and humility about not neccessarily knowing everything there is to know all the time.
But that's just my opinon.

 

[Mr Clean]

I feel like I say "I feel like" sometimes because sone things are not certain or undecided. That is part of growing and learning and humility about not neccessarily knowing wveryhinh there is to know all the time.
But that's just my opinon.

It's one thing to discuss how you feel about something in the context of discussing your feelings or what your gut is telling you but people use it as a crutch too much. Even in a situation which demands your fully formed opinion on the matter. It's too many quasi takes out here. It's hard to know where people are at.

 

[Vandelay]

Don't blame me for something I didn't do.

I'm a humble person, but short of verbally or physically attacking me it's just about the only way to make me mad.

 

[downtheline]

Someone who will not look you in the eye when you are talking to him/her

Verbal crutches in conversations

Excessive swearing

Ignorance

Parroting key talking points from Social Media, TV, etc

 

[Take It In Blood]

grown folks taking religion so seriously to the point where they're putting their life (or their children's lives) in danger because they refuse medical help of some sort.

at that point feelings gotta be hurt and u gotta tell them to stop with the bullsh`t

 

[...and some waffle fries]

Unnecessary movement in the house

 

[JoseLuisGotcha]

when someone texts me "yo bro" and just waits for me to respond.

urghhh the woooorssst

like yo.....text me your greeting with what the hell you want all in one text .ex. "yo bro, i wanted to see if you were free next week to my event im having also if you can share on your ig stories i'd appreciate it".

...i hate going into a text message blind.....now if someone texts me that i don't even respond......even if the "ask" is annoying and they text everything at once i find it easier to deal with and more willing to help out

 

[Sukairain]

when someone texts me "yo bro" and just waits for me to respond.

urghhh the woooorssst

like yo.....text me your greeting with what the hell you want all in one text .ex. "yo bro, i wanted to see if you were free next week to my event im having also if you can share on your ig stories i'd appreciate it".

...i hate going into a text message blind.....now if someone texts me that i don't even respond......even if the "ask" is annoying and they text everything at once i find it easier to deal with and more willing to help out

Yeah I find this infuriating too. I don't want to have a conversation with you. Get to the point. Tell me what you need from me. Don't just say hi and wait for my reply

 

[Rocket Scientist]

When someone texts what are you doing?