Interracial relationships seem lonely AF

[Carlton Banks]

What do you do when you're going through or dealing with black issues and your partner isn't?

When you experience discrimination and your partner doesn't, how does that make you feel? I get they're supposed to care , but c'mon... You think they really care?

The person who's supposed to be your Ace has no idea what you're going through. So now you gotta go to your friends or family for comfort and advice every time you deal with some BS for being black. They don't feel the same anxiety you do when dealing with cops, among other things.... Like how wouldn't that piss a breh off?

 

[El Bombi]

I guess it depends on the city they live in.

Interracial relationship in L.A. is different than an Interracial relationship in Detroit.

 

[Phitz]

I'm not into IR, but these days alot of relationships(even between teh same races) and marriages seem lonely, but yeah IR probably moreso.

People are scared to open up and never learned or practiced how so compound that with IR

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

From what I’ve experienced in the past, white people tend to think we’re making it up in our head, and just tell us to ignore it. God forbid they stop being racist, we just need to have a better reaction, and put up with it.

 

[Sensitive Christian Grey]

Go on reddit or LSA and see what they've felt and gone through?

 

[Genos]

I think if you actually understand racial issues in America and have an empempathetic partner it's not that hard. Plus you can say the same dynamic exists in heterosexual partnerships. You dont know what a woman goes through

 

[Carlton Banks]

I think if you actually understand racial issues in America and have an empempathetic partner it's not that hard. Plus you can say the same dynamic exists in heterosexual partnerships. You dont know what a woman goes through

We all have mothers/grandmother's... Some of us have sisters. We know what women go through

 

[Low End Derrick]

Unless you're one of them "I don't see color" head on the sand type negros, your partner, surely, would be empathetic to your plight?

 

[Child_Of_God]

From the stories I read some of the white spouses try to understand the whole situation and offer support in anyway that they can and some are pretty ignorant about the whole thing and like to pretend that it is a rare occurrence and a few of them are even racist themselves.

 

[jay83]

I dated an Asian woman who was slightly darker skinned and she stay going in on white folks.

 

[Dwolf]

Go get in one and find out

 

[Wandissimo]

Dap Fishin

 

[get these nets]

OP,

I'd imagine that Black people in Inter racial relationships still have same race friends. Probably lean on their friends who have same background and experiences.
Dudes might share certain things with their wives, but they are going to speak to their real running buddies about real shyt anyway, regardless of who their wife is.

 

[Ricky Dunigan]

I dunno , that’s what my best friend is for. He understands what black men go through. Same with me having brothers. I don’t need my chick , regardless of race, to 100% understand me.

 

[Sex Luthor]

I dated a Vietnamese chick in high school and Its not lonely bc if you been with them for a while they see whats going on. Op said relationships and not just fukking so if you're in a relationship she wants to know what your life is like. Rarely do you ever see an interracial relationship where the other person thinks racism isn't real, unless the cac is a dude. White men know but won't acknowledge it. Usually when the other race is a female she's more empathetic and wants to help.

Even if I was in an interracial relationship I'd still go to my family to discuss issues. I do that now and my girl is black.